Getting pregnant again

[NicMom]

I know I asked this a month or two ago, but just wondering again if and when you are planning on ttc? We talked about March forever and now I keep wanting to push it back a few months. We are taking a few trips and have a wedding to go to you know just the usual summer stuff. I just can't stand morning sickness and the last few times I was pregnant I was SOOOO sick as a dog. Anyhow that's my excuse. Then last night I was talking to my dh about taking a cruise in April and he said "well you might be pregnant by then" I was so bummed out when he said that. Oh I don't know what I want to do now.

The funny part about this whole thing is that last month we had a pregnancy scare and now again this month I was starting to think I might be pregnant. We're not using any protection I have no idea why we just haven't talked about it. My period isn't due for another few days so cross your fingers for me that I do get it! I'm so not ready yet, but it seems like my dh is. How funny is that!

Anyhow... who's trying to get pregnant already or planning to start in the near future??

[slzerbst]

Dh and I have decied to wait a while before we try for our second... LoL I'm 22 and Dh will be 25 in June, so we are in no rush to have another one... and Hopefully this one will be planned and everything will be a little better in that respect.  Plus I'm planning on going back to school soon, so I think that it would be best if we waited until after I'm finished before we have another mouth to feed, diaper, occupy, and what else not... Tho I do miss being prego, however, I don't miss morning sickness nore the achs and pains of everyday life when I was... so ya.  Oh and my cousin had her son on Jan. 3rd and I miss when Owen was that small and red... LoL I know that sounds silly, but it's ture!!

[NicMom]

Good idea on the egg harvest!

[Juana824]

I miss being pregnant too, but like Radhika says, right now I am devoting all my time to my MaKayla. DH and I discussed it and I will be harvesting eggs in the next few months and freezing them until she is around 1 1/2 or 2!  

[radhika28]

Hey if DH doesnt behave dont go for it for the next few months. spend some time with him and work on the relation, once it gets better you will have your new baby in your arms soon :-)
btw, why arent we girls not already enjoying our 4/5 month olds at the moment? Our babies have the right to have 100% of their mommy's mind on them, than on the unborn kid.
Im busy reading on babycentre each week for the development of my baby and how should i be playing games with her for her development & im loving this all :-)

At the moment, im not thinking about a 2nd one as DH didnt behave well when i was pregnant the 1st time, so iv made things very clear to him. Im gonna ttc only once he behaves, once Kisori is 1 1/2 yrs of age.
hahaha...but im missing being preggo too :-)

take care,
radhika

[April_Baby]

This is my first and last pregnancy. Through God's grace, He blessed us with twins (boy/girl). Good Luck to those of you who trying.

[AriQueen]

Well, then maybe you should wait until adding another baby to the family. If you are already having issues or getting irriated with your Dh adding another child will only add more tension and stress. That's just my opnion. Just wait and see how things unfold in the next coming months! Good luck =)

[NicMom]

I'm 30 now and want to be done having kids by the time I'm 35 and we are going to have one maybe two more. I would really like to have them about 18 months apart, but that would mean getting pregnancy in april/june. Honestly I'd much rather wait until July/August. I'm just going to take it one month at a time and see how it goes. If things don't get better with my dh I won't have to worry about having any more kids! He's driving me up a wall.

[Latrice414]

well im not with trinity's dad and when we were 2gether marriage was suppose to take place then ttc again, we were going for a total of 3 kids.  well now she will grow up without a sibling her age.  my son will be off 2 college in 4 years:(.  so what ever god has in store for me is what i have to except.  i do miss being preggo:)  

my best friend just had her baby on the 31st of dec. was due the 27th and was induced the30th. she ended up havn c-section, he would not fit,  he was 10lbs lol. her 1st baby

[AriQueen]

No pregnancies for me til Brandon is at least 1 1/2 close to two years old. I am having issues with childcare and is quite expensive in my area so I'm putting my ttc plans on hold for now. I really do miss being preggo and wish I could be a stay at home mom but unfortunately I don't have that luxury...I have to work. LOL Maybe I'll play the lottery so I can quite my job and start making more babies. HAHHAHA. My plan is to have all my kids by 32-33 which is the next five years.

[jenkaye21]

I am hoping to get pregnant with my fifth (and final) in August.  As a teacher, an April/May due date would be perfect for me.

Plus, like you, I don't want to be pregnant in the summer and my sister is getting married August 7.  I'll be matron of honor-  SOOO glad I won't be pregnant for that!

It is a tough decision, there are such advantages and disadvantages to any timing, but hopefully it will happen for you at the best possible time!