broken.

[expectingbabygirl]

I have to go through my pregnancy alone I just wish I was dead. After us being together 4 years.and months first it was good when I turn 6 months he just disappear n stop calling ;( I cant get tgrough it tought he loved me ;(

[expectingbabygirl]

Abbey2121 thanks you just made my day well not day, days.!! :-) I litterly see things.completely diffrent it finaly hit me is not worth thankyou so much !!!!!

[Abbey2121]

Sweety you will get through this! I completely understand how hard it is. My ex husband ran out on me after 8 years of marriage and 3 months into my first pregnancy. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. But....you are a strong women and honestly.....this is his loss. Keep your chin up my dear....and remember....you don't have to go through this alone. If you need someone to talk to I am here and would be happy to chat with you and help you get through this. You are a strong, beautiful, soon to be mommy and trust me....the second you look at that beautiful baby nothing but love will fill your heart. Screw men....we can do this on our own!

[expectingbabygirl]

Aww I love hearing yalls storts! Thanks :)

[Kristylm]

Things will be ok! I was with my child's father for a year before I got pregnant, and he left when I was 6 months also. He even went as far as moving in with another girl while I was pregnant, and she was pregnant 3 months after my child was born. Then, he tried for years to come back to me. Having a baby is overwhelming for men and women, but some men (& women) find it easier to just run than take responsibility. You will find someone great, even if it takes years. My daughter is now 6 and I have finally found a wonderful man. He and my daughter have a better relationship than she and her father do, and it hurts him so badly now. My boyfriend and I are having a child of our own now as well, and my daughters father is very jealous. He will realize the huge mistake he made. You just need to stay strong and be a wonderful mother to that child!

[Manantiel27]

I have three kids by my x husband he hasn't been in the picture he left when I was 2 months pregnant with our third I've had all my kids alone I'm 27 now and they are 5 7 9 and there my whole life I couldn't imagine my life without them I love them so much I went through times where it was rough like what are we going to eat tomorrow but I made it and I graduated from college and we are all doing just fine. I was so young when I had them I accidentally called them names that my younger brother or sister are lol.

[expectingbabygirl]

Thanks girls is just tough at times am tryng to pull through.  How are you feeling about him walking out?:/

[PamelaSmith800]

Honey my ex husband ran out on me as well and it is hard and I didn't think I could get through it alone either. But every time you feel your baby kick or go to the doctor to hear her heartbeat remind your self you have something to live for.

[Baby_Meyer2]

Saying u wish u were dead is saying u wish ur child wasnt going to be alive. I have went through that situation. It was not hard it was challenging!you can do anything uset ur mind to. My sonis now three and im married to his father and expecting our second! Everything works out in the end:)

[soWhatImFlawed]

Same here im almost five months and my bf walked out on me a few days ago he wanted me to have an abortion at first but i wouldn't do it.. Now he is say he doesn't want to be with me at all..

[irinaine]

Be strong hun, do it foe your baby even if now must feel soo bad xx

[expectingbabygirl]

Thanks yall !

[may92015]

Your not the only one I'll be raising a child on my own.. cause the father of my child doesn't want anything to with the baby or whatever his case is.. I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt an maybe he'll come around sooner or later or when the baby comes.. but if not I also excepted that I will be a single mom.. I know it's hard to believe that your going to be by yourself but don't stress over it too much..

[coco_zm]

Only time will heal all your pains and although it seems like it might seem like a long time from now be positive and take this momment to cherish what you do you and not what you have lost. You have the gift of life in you and that is something amazing that should overcome any bad situation you are going threw. No man is worth tears nor stress if they are acting like the guy you were with. Sometimes people come in and out of our lives for a reason. And remember what is meant to be is meant to be . You will never be alone you have a lot of people like myself cheering you on to keep going. Take care.

[msmjoi]

IT WILL BE OKAY I HAVE THREE TEENAGERS AND THERE FATHERS WERE NOT THERE AT ALL AND STILL NOT AROUND AND SOMETIMES YOU CAN BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND FEEL LIKE TOY ARE BY YOURSELF LIKE I FEEL NOW BUT IS OKAY IT WILL GET BETTER I HAVE DONE THIS BEFORE SO I AM OKAY WITH BEING BUY MYSELF TO TAKE CARE OF MY CHILD I DON'T NEED YOU AROUND IF YOUR NOT GOING TO HELP ME OR YOUR NOT GOING TO CONTRIBUTE TO ANYTHING YOUR JUST MORE STRESS AND AGGRAVATION THAT I DON'T NEED SO KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND JUST LOOK FORWARD TO THE BIRTH OF YOUR BABY AND TYNE TEST OF YOUR LIFE WITH YOU'RE CHILD

[expectingbabygirl]

Thanks :(

[sarom_amanda]

I know this is easier said than done but hang in there especially for your baby. I know it's scary and your emotions are out of whack but once you hold your baby in your hand you will be ok. I was 19 when I had my first child and I was scare. The father wasn't in the picture and I was alone too. Now my son is 16 years old and looking back at it all everything I gone through with him was worth it. He is an amazing teen. He will be 17 in Dec, a Junior in High School and the coolest big brother ever. His father is still not in the picture but it doesn't matter anymore because it's his lost not my son. I am marry now and my hubby is a great dad to all of our kids. So please hang in there and you will be ok.