Aa
so hurt
To find out baby daddy is on a dating website after a month he breaks up with me. Can't he wait until I had the baby to move on so hurt
Sorry Lena :c I'm also going to be alone in this pregnancy at 19!the Daddy doesnt want anything to do with us & hear about him partying all the time.But we will be amazing mothers!!!!try not to focus on the bad!& focus on happy things! Like how happy that baby is going to make you & how happy your going to make him or her!Men suck!!!
I had the same issue when my daughter was born. I did contact a lawyer here and was told that if I wanted to be alone throughout labor and delivery, that was my right. You have a right to have who you want in there, or even allowed to visit in the hospital. I had my ex (then husband) escorted out of the hospital cause I didn't want him there.
Lena, I'll say it again. Consult a lawyer not this forum. I am an attorney here in Texas and the advice you're receiving here is incorrect. Talk to a lawyer from your state, discuss your wishes and get the ball rolling.
Not at all, and even ur baby doesnt need to have his lastname and or be on your baby's birth certificate, is more easier if his just not there
No you cannot get in trouble for him not being in the delivery room. It is your right to have who you wish in there. He has no rights until baby is born.
No you can not get in trouble for not letting him in. Labor and delivery are considered medical procedures and you have every right to your privacy during them. He has no rights until after the baby is born. You can start custody proceedings prior to birth.
I understand how you feel. My oldest sons father walked out on me when I was five months pregnant and was with another girl that same night. Ripped my heart out. Found out he was cheating on me the entire time. He wasn't there when I had my son because he was at his girlfriends birthday party getting drunk. He was never around. Only time he wanted anything to do with us was when he was in prison and then as soon as he got out he split. Sadly though his life ended because of how he chose to live. My son is now a wonderful 19 year old with a heart of gold. I wouldnt trade him for anything. He made me the strong woman I am today. You will overcome and will be stronger than you ever thought you could be.
Can I get in trouble if he takes me to court for not letting him be there?
You dont need him to be there in labor with you, in my case my mom was with me when i had my son, and trust me is the best person to have in that moment,and i hope she can be with my second baby too :) keep it up girl you can, yoy dont need a jerk on ur life they just waist ur time
Leave that piece of **** asap. You don't need scum in your life. You deserve someone that will do anything to make you happy not someone who stands by and watches you suffer. Danni is right nothing is permanent. You deserve better girl.
Did u have him there when u we're in labor?
I know how u feel :-( thats what happen to me he broke up with me. Said he needed space then he was dating a new chick month later. I wasnt suprised he hops into relationship like its nothen an it pissed me off but i put all my energy into my daughter an second pregnancy. I always reminded myself that im a strong independent woman i can do it on my own :-D an u can too!!!
I guess im worst than you :/ i found out my babies dad was cheating on me and i kick his *** even tho im pregnant, he decided to leave us (my 5yr old, baby on the way and I) a day later the girl contact me telling me she is pregnant and to keep myself away from them, and that she knew my pregnancy was a lie(thats what he told her) oh well that made me more stronger cuz he got with my unborn baby,his gonna suffer for that, you are gonna be ok nothing is permanent you are a woman and we are strong
& this is why the baby should have your last name ! Good luck ...
I'm sorry. Hugs
Talk to a lawyer and make sure that you get sole custody and insure he doesn't skimp on child support.
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