Aa
Aa
A
A
A
Close
Avatar universal

39 weeks and no sex please help answer

Hey I'm almost 39 weeks and I heard sex helps the cervix or dilate more , but my Babydaddy don't want to have sex with me, he keep saying I'm not suppose too at 9months , how can I get him to have sex.
17 Responses
Sort by: Helpful Oldest Newest
Avatar universal
If I were you wait until he falls asleep and then hop on and tell him once he wakes up that if he pushes you off in anyway you will make sure his life is miserable for the next few days to come. And then just keep going.  I'm 33 weeks and my husband before I got on bedrest he thought sex was bad time do my first trimester he wouldn't even want to see new naked because everytone he'd get to happy and after sex he'd go did I hurt you do I need to take you to the hospital. Happened constantly until 2nd trimester. But now I'm on Bedrest do to early dilation. But my doctor gave me permission to have sex as much as I want and to even get off bedrest when I hit 37  weeks. Only a few more weeks yay. Been on bedrest since 30 weeks not to long but feels like forever.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Lol . right
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I see lol especially if the head didn't work lol good luck tho!
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Ok thanks. I will try my best. He is a hard one lol
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal

Sex May Induce Labor

Although there is no hard scientific proof, many doctors suggest intercourse as a natural way to get things going for a full-term or overdue mama-to-be. Semen contains a hormone called prostaglandin, which may stimulate the cervix and cause contractions (so if you're hoping to stimulate labor sexually, be sure to ejaculate inside your partner's vagina). But don't worry: Sex won't cause premature labor in an otherwise healthy pregnancy. If your partner is ready to get this baby out, she's likely ready to give anything a try. So make your move, Papa.



Sorry idk what that other mess is lol

Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
deodorant stickman and woman in bed
couple looking at sonogramcouple in bedman and woman in bedman and womanman and womanman and woman in bedman and woman in beddeodorant stickman and woman in bedcouple sitting on couchcouple on bed
Sex May Induce Labor
Although there is no hard scientific proof, many doctors suggest intercourse as a natural way to get things going for a full-term or overdue mama-to-be. Semen contains a hormone called prostaglandin, which may stimulate the cervix and cause contractions (so if you're hoping to stimulate labor sexually, be sure to ejaculate inside your partner's vagina). But don't worry: Sex won't cause premature labor in an otherwise healthy pregnancy. If your partner is ready to get this baby out, she's likely ready to give anything a try. So make your move, Papa.

This is from what to expect site its just for dad's article about sex
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Ok I'll try
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Wow! He's a tough one lol find an article or something that says there's nothing wrong with it. Tell him you are supposed to!!!
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I tried.  I even gave him head he accepted that, but I don't know why he so scared to have sex with me , this his third child I'm pretty sure he know it won't hurt the baby . but he keep telling me no and I'm not suppose too
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Have you tried seducing him or he already knows what you're tryin to do lol?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I just had sex with my first, no orgasm and my labor started. I went from not begin dilated to 3cm the next day
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
I tried telling him, he doesn't want to have sex. He keep saying no no no and it makes me mad ,
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Why wouldn't he wanna do it?? Your both supposed to do it for 6 weeks after baby comes.
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
An orgasm is better for bringing on labor than just sex. Same muscles and all. Will he do anything to help you with that?
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Let him know you're ready to see the baby!
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Tell him to just go in. It doesn't really have to be sex lol if that makes sense but I've read that men's semen has somethin in it to help start labor well it gets the cervix to contract. Tell him you will just get on top and move around. Tell him That's the best time to have sex
Helpful - 0
Avatar universal
Ask him where he heard that. You can usually have sex up until labor as long as your doctor says its ok.
Helpful - 0

You are reading content posted in the Pregnancy: Social Community

Popular Resources
Get information and tips on how to help you choose the right place to deliver your baby.
Get the facts on how twins and multiples are formed and your chance of carrying more than one baby at a time.
Learn about the risks and benefits of circumcision.
What to expect during the first hours after delivery.
Learn about early screening and test options for your pregnancy.
Learn about testing and treatment for GBS bacterium.