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39+4.. Saw my boyfriend with the girl he cheated on me with...

So I'm 39+4 getting induced on Saturday :) I saw my boyfriend with a boy and the girl that he cheated on me with at the beginning of our relationship and I've just screwed at him and he said he's done nothing wrong, yet I'm still crewing at him and still really upset and just stressing so bad but it's because he's done something with her before and I can't stand her!!!! Am I being ott???:( would anyone else be like this?
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Let him know how you feel and why first instead of keeping it all in until you explode. If he makes a smart remark or doesnt seem to care about your feelings then id probably go crazy. If all else fails and he still sees her after knowing how you feel I would strongly consider leaving him alone for a while and focus on my baby. Even if it means leaving him to stay with another family member, its unfair for u to stay with him while he still consciously disrespects ur feelings. Dont let him walk all over you or get under your skin because if you and your baby were priority to him as a man he would stop seeing her. Point blank.
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8489354 tn?1405627762
He cheated on you with her, so he should have nothing to do with her. Even if nothing is going on there is a history and he should know it would be uncomfortable for you. I'd just make sure he knows how it makes you feel.
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8280616 tn?1403204160
My baby daddy knows damn well exs are off limits same goes for me it's just me and him. He doesn't talk to girls and I don't talk to boys. Maybe sit down and talk with him before going all crazy lol.
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My bf still talks to his ex that he cheated on twice, she cuts his hair every few months and she works with his mom. I get a little annoyed sometimes but it was like 10 yrs ago since they've been together...if it was recent, I would be very upset if I saw them together. If he cared about your feelings he would break all contact with her. Did he say why he still talks to her?
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9207519 tn?1407111405
I would beat the crap out of him.
Thats a disrespect to you & your baby.
He knows that you dont like her.
What the hell is he doing with her.
Definitely should be madd.
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I would most definitely flip!
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8726042 tn?1399978830
I would **** he has nothing to b doing with her or around her specially if theu have history i would b f****** pissed lpl
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