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Anyone get married while prego?

So When My Fiance And I Get Married I'll Be A Little More Than 5 Months Prego. We've Been Planning Our Honeymoon Since Before I Became Prego And Were Really Looking Forward To Getting Couples Massages. Well My Fiance Read Online That Massages Aren't Safe For Prego Women And He's All Freaked Out So There Goes That. Also My Only Demand For The Entire Honeymoon Was That We Sit In A Jacuzzi Filled With Rose Petals And Drink An Entire Bottle Of Wine. I Know It Sounds Crazy But We've Never Had A Glass Of Wine Together Not Even For An Anniversay Toast Or Anything. Well He Agreed And Now I Can't Drink Wine Or Get In A Jacuzzi :( I'm Concerned That My Honeymoon Will Be "Boring". My ? Is What Did You Ladies Do On Ur Honeymoons Aside From The Obvious That Is Lol.
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Yes look into prenatal massage. I got one at 32 weeks when pregnant with my daughter and there was no problem. As for hot tub you can do that too. Just turn it down to 98 or 99 and don't stay in it for hours. But it all depends on where you are going. We live on the west coast and went to Seattle and did all sorts of things like zoos and a couple cheese factories and aquariums and things like that. We had a blast!!
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Aww Thanks A Bunch Tammy!!! Sounds Like You Had A Great Honeymoon!!! Congrats On Your Marriage Btw!!!
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7172456 tn?1403092946
I got married 3 weeks ago now and just got back from our honeymoon.. I was 16 weeks when we got married, we went on a cruise.. You can still get massages, you just have to tell them your pregnant, I got shoulder and feet massages which were lovely.. And you can have a nice warm bubble bath instead of a jacoozi and eat chocolate covered strawberries instead of alcohol.. Chocolate is the next best thing hahaa :) hope you have an amazing wedding day.. Enjoy every moment because it goes so quick!! :) xx
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7819795 tn?1394500455
Thank you and I hope that she keeps on cooking to until she is ready but. I don't know if she will bc my water is leaking. So I got put on bed rest.
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@Courtney111310 Great Idea Thanx!!!

@BlueNicole Thanks And Congrats To You As Well And Hopefully Ur Baby Will Keep On Cooking Until It's Rdy And You Have A Smooth Easy Delivery!!!
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7819795 tn?1394500455
I got married on Feb 15, 2014. I was 30 weeks pregnant. Me and my husband have not gone on are honeymoon yet. Bc I have a high risk of early pregnancy and I have been having a lot of problems with my pregnancy. So we are going to wait until after we have are daughter to go on are honeymoon.  But congrats and good luck.
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7552244 tn?1393364737
Even if you cant get in a hot tub together maybe you could take a warm bubble bath together with sparkling cider :) and rose petals...and there are also prenatal massages :)
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Thank You So Much For Your Responses Ladies!!! I'll Definitely Be Looking Into All Of Your Suggestions I'm Super Psyched!!! Good Luck To You All!!!
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7301641 tn?1391016954
And I heard the other day that water parks are okay! There's sooo much you guys could do that doesn't involve jacuzzi or alcohol. Go shopping :)
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You May Still Be Able To Get A Massage... The Spa Here Does prenatal Massages. You Should Look Into It.
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7773990 tn?1400728625
They have massages for mothers so maybe you could look into that. I know I got one with my first and they can't do certain places on ur wrist or ankles because it can cause u to go into labor
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You're welcome!! Oh yeah, you could go sight seeing too maybe :)
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Yup wel be getting married late spring summer ish ill either be 6, 7, or 8 months  :) n like above sayd just relax and enjoy your self you csn always take a second honeymoon or if you csnt do that you two can alway go to a spa together :)
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Thanks Chelsea!!!
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I'm getting married May 17th and I'll be almost 17 weeks by then. I say relax,  enjoy each other's company, have a little fun, go eat at a nice restaurant... I don't know, you'll figure something out.
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