Update on baby dad and question (kinda long)

[Ariel_21]

So I you read the last two post u will understand what's going on. So after the whole drama yesterday. I changed my number. So he/or his family will not be able to contact me. I msged him on Facebook. With the information I got offline with the laws on paternity rights and abandonment in the state of California. I asked him will he sign his rights over so I can do a step parent adoption and he won't have nothing to do with him and know anything about his son and even the birth certificate will be changed. Or i will simply leave his name off the BC and if he do not do anything or even contact his son send money etc withn 6 months after he's born his rights will just be terminated that way. Or if he decides to be in his life after the DNA test is done. I will make sure there are visitation rights. Because I don't need my son around his lil temp. Female or any other female he bed with. And I also found out in the state of Cali. He still have rights even if he's not on the BC. There will just be a DNA test done. So after telling him all that. He still doesn't seem to care and just says f...k me. So I just told him il wait the 6 months so it can be an abandonment issue. And his rights can just be terminated that way. So I blocked him off Facebook. So he won't try and get in contact with me. Should I try and talk to his auntie over fb? Or block her too so she won't try and contact me?

Sorry it's long.

[19prego]

Girl wait till u have your baby.... ur stressing out too much leave him alone but have in ur mind that ur gonna b a single mother and that he probably wont be there so u wont get hurt when he don't come around..... u was like me now I don't txt or call him at all..... I let him be.... the txt he will get is from me saying I'm in labor that's it.... I just think ur not over him n still mad that u gonna have to take care of his child alone.... n he just gonna do what he wants..... just get over it cause my bd is the same way they will never care unless they learn from there karma..... pray that u get your life together for ur kids and yourself and that a men will take there father place.....

[Ariel_21]

Thanks il do that. I won't block her. Just him . And il let her know when I got into labor and etc.

[Quantelle]

Honestly hun your stressing yourself out. Im Kindof  going through the same situation but I have decided to let go and let God. The situation will play out in it's own. Wait till the baby comes and give him the 6 month period. If nothing improves do what you have to do to take care of you and the baby. No questions asked. Don't deny his family from being in the baby life. Trust me even if he is not there his family will hopefully. Good luck hun and remember that our babies know when we are stressed so calm down, relax and breathe. Things will work out. :)

[Ariel_21]

She knows what's going on. But he don't listen to no one. That's the thing.

[EmmalynsMommy]

If you're close with her go ahead and let her know what's going on. Maybe she can talk some sense into him. Good luck.