Don't judge..

[MommyMellette2015]

I am so sick of weed, cigarettes, alcohol and whatever else drugs there are! I hate them! I used to chew before, I tried smoking weed and cigarettes and even tried drinking but now I just hate it! I don't think I'm ever gonna do that stuff again. It's so addicting like my fiance smokes weed and cigs, he drinks but not lately. He used to go out all night with his dumb *** friends and I would just cry. Now he's selling and he smokes more... It got to the point where he would only come back to shower and change then leave again. He dis that for 3 days straight so I left. But now he's slowed down he doesn't stay away for that long but now that I've become pregnant I just want to be around him all the time and I just hate how he needs to smoke with his bum friends. I just want him to stop but I know that's asking a lot from him... Can anyone relate? I feel so bad.. Bad for not accepting who he is and for being left at home all the time. Idk I think I just need some encouragement...

[sanja25]

Sounds like he is trying to change
He was always the same
You changed when you got pregnant(its normal) now you expect him to change
Its harder for man than for a pregnant woman to change
Give him some time,he is trying
If not...leave

[BabyWidmer]

Love, I get it... We all want it. But you could be happy working, having your own apartment/House and using your money on you and your baby.. Not your boyfriend using it on weed and other stuff. I was in a bad marriage and left. Never thought I could do it but I did. So can you!

[BabyWidmer]

Not judging or trying to make you feel bad. But you left for a reAson and you need to think about baby. He seems to be set in his ways and doesn't want to change or he would of. Do you want your baby around drugs and his friends? Your baby shouldn't be breathing that. I am so sorry you are going through this, you both DESERVE better!