That's ridiculous.. I hate how people make a huge deal over the gender of their baby. Regardless its your child and it is a true blessing! There are some women out there who would give anything to have a baby.
The mens sperm determine the sex, you have no control over the sex. Just give them time. Boy or girl its still your child and still needs you.
Give them a little bit of time to come around but it really shouldn't matter what your having its not like you had any control over what you were gunna have all that should realy matter is that yall have a healthy baby