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Ladies please i need your advice, :(

I'm 4 weeks and 6 days pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion. Because we're not ready for one & we didn't plan to have a baby  and we are still so young.  I don't know what to do or think.  
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No one is ever ready for a child I had my first son at 19, my daughter at 21 and now I'm 26 with my third child my husband and I where young when we had our first child and we are more excited than ever to be welcoming our third baby into this world. God have you this blessing for a reason and it is your body and your decision if you want to abort or not. However if is adult enough to stick it in without a condom them he is adult enough to accept the responsibilities. Good luck dear.
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I went through the same issue at first bc I'm 25 and my boyfriend was just turning 21. I had my first child when I was 21 and he has come with many complications on finishing the goals I had planned before pregnancy. This made my boyfriend insist that he wanted an abortion, that was around 6-8 weeks along. Now I am 20 weeks and we are having a boy and he could not be happier. Just wait it out and see if he changes his mind about the baby and if I I guys still agree that you should not be parents after some time to really think then you can do adoption and help to give another family a baby they could not have together. I never support abortion bc the child can always be given to those less fortunate and unable to have children of their own.
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Read up on ablation .. Maybe you'll reconsider girl! There are other options!! Adoption for people who can't have kids! It would be a beautiful blessing.... You were given this baby for a reason!! And maybe that's the reason. Just read & consider .... It's ok to be scared
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No one is ready for a baby. It's all up to you because it's your body. Good luck
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