Need Advice. DO NOT JUDGE !!!!

[Eva_Mom1]

Ok my bfs mom is really messing with my nerves. Everytime i talk to her she always has slick remarks to say like IF THIS IS MY SONS BABY. . . Like i know its his baby or she will say you sound just like a white girl. I love white people and idc if i sound like a white girl or not but it just gets on my nerves when she says i hope my grandchild dont talk like that i mean really she can be so rude and mean idk what to do my bf says dont worry about her she dont mean no harm but it just gets to me. I mean whats wrong with the way i talk

[Eva_Mom1]

Lol yeah i will : )

[lizlezama]

If she tells you that I'd snap back real quick with I hope my baby doesn't have that rude/bad attitude! If your getting your own place be sure to drop hints saying its gonna be your house your rules because you will be premiting her to stay there.

[Eva_Mom1]

Lmaooo thats not happening my bf thinks im being mean but oh well i REFUSE

[FruitLoop123]

Hahahaha thats right about where I draw the line!! First you treat me like s hit and put me down and now you wanna live in my house?!!!? Ha!! Good luck!! Stay strong, hold your ground!!

[Eva_Mom1]

I hope things get better then she is talking about moving in with us when we get our own place lol ohhhhhh noooooooooo

[FruitLoop123]

Ur absolutely right!

[Eva_Mom1]

Lol i will never she just needs to respect me to gain respect

[FruitLoop123]

Yeah I can totally relate, hopefully if we have a son one day we dont act like crazy bit ches hahaa

[Eva_Mom1]

I dont think nothing is wrong with it but my bf mom think it is

[PincheM92]

Whats wrong with the way white people talk?

[Eva_Mom1]

Thanks i just dont say nothing my bf says its just how she is seens he is her only child but still give me some respect if she wants me to give her some respect

[FruitLoop123]

Omg my mil is tge exact same way, loves attention. Hates that her son puts me and our unborn child before her, i just try to ignore the b itch and not let itbother me so much. I know my man loves us both and dont wanna stoop to her level and try and make him feel bad. Just do ur best to not let it get to u!! GL

[Eva_Mom1]

Lol we stay in the same house my bf hates drama and loud talking and thats all his mama is guna do start drama i hate it she thinks im getting between her and her son and thats not true and she told my bf one time that i was guna leave him after i have the baby like wtf i would never do that

[smileymonn89]

If your boy friend wont stick up for you and say something to his mum i think thats abit harsh. Maybe you should just not be around her ?

[Eva_Mom1]

Idk if she is jealous but its bugging me oitbidk how to talk to her she gets so hostile so fast

[TanyaC0516]

I wouldn't put up with any of that.  My ex husband mom tried crap like that.  I reminded her that she gave him and his siblings up and no one feels bad for her.  I also made it very clear that I might be with your son but they're our children and if I say you're not seeing them then you're not.  End if discussion.   She was never rude to me again after that.

You're not with her, you're with her son.

[ohalie]

Tell that ***** you're number one in her son's life now. Gtfo it. Baby is #2. Is she really jealous of you? Grow the fck up lady.

Ok now in a non mean way lol just tell her how you feel, insulting you is hurting your feelings. And if she had any respect for you or your baby, she'd stop making rude comments. What kind of grandmother, not to mention mother, is she?

[JustineBreOnna]

Exactly! She literally told me the other day that I'm taking her time from her and me being pregnant is putting too much stress on her "and stress is bad BC of my condition"....like wtf

[Eva_Mom1]

Thats how my bf mom is she wants all the attention on her she always complains she sick and hurting so my bf can take care of her its like she cant stand when me and her son spend time together

[JustineBreOnna]

My bfs mom does the same thing....she actually told me she hopes I have a brat child  for payback...and she will say things about me then want a pity party for herself BC she has a heart condition...she said its not fair ...I don't even understand it >.<