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Husbands, BF's, etc rant.

They are all just inconsiderate jerks! I am very emotional and all my husband does is act like a d*ck. I wish men would just get their heads out of their a**es. I'm so tired of having to explain how I'm feeling and still get treated the same way. Seriously men need to open their f***ing ears and grow up and listen to what we are saying. I'm so fed up with it. I should not be dealing with it during pregnancy and neither should any other woman. They need to just stop being jerks and just be there for us and stop begging for sex, or expecting us to cook and clean and do laundry like seriously I can't stand it anymore. I know I'm not the only one. Sorry this is long but men just need to realize how this makes us feel. We feel tired, achy, irritable and unattractive I just wish they would learn but they never will.
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YES EVERY COMMENT IS SO TRUE . THIS WAT I DISLIKE 'BAE YOU COOKING TONIGHT OR Bae you ain't done laundry .while pregnant women are content with flowey not breezy sun dresses  or when you do get a energy surge to cook  you get no help  with the clean up. Tho I vowed to never make my man eat microwave  food....HE NEEDS TO EAT A NOODLE CUP .
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Atleast im not the only one! It's sad that I have to ask my fiancé everyday to act sweet or be nice for just a day and he still can't do that.  Apparently his video game is more important than the woman carrying his son. . I have to ask him to touch/kiss my belly.  I hate it.  I really thought this would be such a special thing in our relationship but he acts like it's nothing. ..
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Girl idk what your talking about. My husband rubs my body, talks to me, walks with me, helps with our 1year old daughter, treats me like his bestfriend & a queen. Not all men are jerks. There are some awesome amazing men out there who will love their woman like she's the only thing they have to live for.
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I have to disagree. Its not all men. I am almost 5 months preg with my 3rd baby and my bf works all week and soon as he gets home he does the laundry I only have to fold it. He cooks and helps me clean up. And I don't work bc he doesn't want me to work while I'm pregnant so he leaves money for me at the beginning of every week just in case I wanna get out of the house with the kids or need anything. And as far as sex goes. We have sex at least twice a day when he's home because it doesn't feel like an obligation to me he always gets me in the mood first and makes it all about me. I must say I'm very blessed. Oh and when he gets home he will watch the kids and help do their homework so I can nap. I can't say enough good things. I don't know what I would do without him.
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I don't think it's all men to be fair. My fiancé is pretty amazing. When he's home he cooks, cleans, makes me tea. I still do chores and stuff when he is here and when he isn't I obviously do everything. We've got a 17 month old as well as another on the way and my fiancé helps look after him as well. Sometimes he's annoying and won't get off his phone or playstation, but mostly he's pretty awesome.
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Well good for you @athalya. But most are like that. Guarantee he's not the perfect prince either.
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