I hate my life now :(

[SelenaLenaHernandez]

So I finally go through my boyfriend phone and facebook and what do I see hes meeting up with females this is my first time pregnancy and I feel like for the first time its the worst :c can someone just message me </3

[octobermom31]

Don't stay just because you don't want to do this alone. Better than being with someone who doesn't respect you.

[lovelyqueen]

sorry that happened to you ..men could be so stupid!!!! that's why as a woman you have to be safe than sorry...if you think he's cheating on you now you gotta think about the health of you and your child and wrap it up or just stop having sex with him and see how you treat you if you do this for a couple of months...you know what to do cause your decision will be easy good luck and God bless

[jamie2464]

Dude his not for u....they say once a cheater always a cheater not always true but once u loose that trust its gone and its hard to get it back think of the stds and ur baby comes first obviously u have famipy that care he talks down to u already leave him like they say in spanish cambio chinas por botellas... he changed oranges for bottles...e q tenga tienda q latienda ooh si no q la venda...

[jess-ann5]

Isn't this the same man that calls you ugly and told you to get an abortion? What are doing with him darlin??? You're young, you have so much time to find a good man that will respect you and treat you right!

If my hubby did these things, he would find himself cold and alone on the streets. Men like this are not good men. My hubby always tells me that I am beautiful, even when I feel like a blob. He never ever once mentioned abortion and our pregnancy was NOT planned at all. He strongly disagrees with cheating and makes sure I know just how much he loves me EVERY Day. I am disgusted by his behavior and there is NO reason why you should tolerate this any longer! Even if you did stay with him, do you really think he will change? How long will you waste your time trying to forgive him??

You deserve better!! Start focusing on yourself and your kid! Be strong and show him just what you can do without his sorry butt!

[devloveschiyoko]

Yea im going thru similar situation. Im starting to notice the more energy i put towards that situation the more horrible i feel. So i try and go out and enjoy my days away from all negativity. It helps but my hormones always bring the thought back. Its my first pregnancy as well but i say be strong and just try and focus on your happiness right now! Easier said then done...but u can... P.S I HATE HORMONES! Lol

[wife_and_mama2014]

No point in "making rules". A relationship without trust will never last. Not being negative hun, just realistic. You don't need that **** especially right now. I'd be gone in a second. If he can do that to you while you're pregnant, he's an awful person.

[alexiswoods]

I ended up going through my boyfriends phone , and I found out he had another fb. I freaked over it and I confronted him about it . He made up a bunch of excuses as well , I eventually got over it . He never met up with these chicks but he was calling them beautiful and everything . I threatened to leave him and he smartened up, gave me the password to the fb so I could change it and he also said he wouldn't delete the history on his safari anymore LOL set the rules hun .

[azmommy711]

So what r u going to do?

[mpattea]

Just strait up talk to him n tell him don't say anything till I'm finished talking n while ur talk pack up his stuff then place it by the door n say if u want to go n be a ***** then leave n if he stays u set the rules from now on

[vanessa_ramos]

All men are gna always make excuses for them not to deal with the peoblem..leaving or staying it's your choice but if u see that u can make by ur self go for it..better now that ur son/daughter isn't born yet.once he/she is born they will put all the pieces from ur heart together.thats all the lov e you will need and will make you stronger

[vanessa_ramos]

I know how u feel i went through my husband cheating on me the whole entire time  i was pregnant with my son.then he literally cheated nd had sex with this chick from church when my son was just 4 months old.i was scared and we lived by ourself.i was close to leaving him.up 2 today I don't know why I dealt with him.but yet I'm still with him.he has changed but still does thing I dislike.we r still living together and going on our second child.

[SelenaLenaHernandez]

SOlrawr of course im keeping the baby , and  Kolina24 he just keeps making up excuses

[Kolina24]

Aww I'm sorry! You need to tell him what you found or it will drive you crazy.

[SOLrawr]

Boys are cruel. Are you keeping the baby??

[momof2expectingsept]

Sorry u gta go thru that. Did u confront him