should i be mad at him for this? my sister thinks i should

[emeryg]

I found like 20 letters from his ex from when he was like 16 he's now 22. They were all just there where he puts his clothes and stuff I just don't understand why these are held for so long.. Like is he not over her? Idk.

[ericatoday]

Were they in a box? Or could you easily see them once you open the drawer? Sometimes you forget about things packed away. My boyfriend found a box like a year ago full of photos of his ex gf and stuff she gave him. I asked why he still had them but they were in the garage he said he didn't know and he just through them away he didn't make a big deal about it I didn't even ask for him to throw them away because if he didn't do it on his own ww3 would've happened. So if your bf is defensive I'd wonder.

[kennimae]

I wouldt be mad especiallynif he threw them away in front of you. My husband and I were going through a bunch of his stuff and found pictures and stuff from his ex fiance.

[briiandryry]

That's what my bf did with all his ex's stuff i felt like maybe he still had feelings for her and he proceed to me he didn't by choice. Were still going strong.

[emeryg]

He threw them in the dumpster in front of me. My sister also had known her she said that shes in a relationship with some guy that shes all in love with.  

[taianasmum]

Depends if he still is in contact with her and what they say. My brother kept all his notes from highschool its kinda along the same lines as a yrbook to him. Something he won't look at but every couple of years because it's nice to remember. If it's like that then I wouldn't be mad. You could always ask him why he keeps them if u care

[GeekMom1213]

It's sentimental value. It's "first love" stuff. If he was seriously still madly in love with her and not you then he'd work a lot harder at hiding them I bet. It sounds totally harmless. Let it be. I wouldn't be mad at all unless there were at least a few more "warning signs" than that.

[everley2014]

My boyfriend had all his letters his girlfriend wrote to him while he was in prison and it was weird to me but I didn't really think anything of it. I would just ask him about it and see what he says. I don't think it's that serious but you never know

[briiandryry]

I'd be pissed

[alexiswoods]

Maybe he forgot about them unless they were with his clothes he always wears ?

[hdavis16]

I don't think you should be mad like you said those letters were from when he was 16 it's in the past