I need your help mommies

[lovelymotherof2angels]

Hi ladies, how are all of you doing?
I am currently 5 weeks pregnant, i havent taken a test but i have counted and i just know i am. I have had trouble with pregnancy in the past. I have had 2 miscarriages, i am really afraid and the reason i havent taken a test is because i know i will get top excited! I will get my hopes up and i might get disappointed a few days later. I have been eating good, i have been doing everything i possibly can. I just have to wait until november first, then i will take a test and see a doctor. I will be 7 weeks november 1st. I have never been 7 weeks before so if i wait that long, than il know this pregnancy might actually go good. I usually miscarry around 5-6 weeks. We will see, hopefully everything goes well. I just dont want to get all excited seeing a positive test than i end up miscarrying. It is what it is though, i tried, im trying. Today i felt the worst stomach pain and for a second i thought omg im miscarrying, but thank god it wasnt anything like that. I hate to think negative but i have to prepare for the worst. Like i am happy but also sad. I am happy that im pregnant, but im sad because i might miscarry. To the women who complain about what gender they want, or whatever, BE THANKFUL. Please! Some of us just wish to have a baby, we dont care for the gender or whatever we just want to hold our baby in our arms. I just need prayers. Please. I just want to experience motherhood. Its beautiful. There are days where im feeling good about this and im all positive but aome days i stress out because im goig crazy over this where some women have kids even when doing things pregnant women shouldnt do. I will keep everyone who cares to know updated. I hope all goes well. To any mothers who are going through this as well, im sorry! I feel your pain! May God help us through this and give us a healthy and successful pregnancy!

[nat731]

I can totally understand why you feel like that because I'm in the same boat. The excitement is a great feeling and the disappointment is a really hurtful feeling. I've been pregnant at 21, went through 4 test that were all negative and finally got a positive when I was around 10 weeks. I miscarried at 4-5 months. :-(
Now, here I am 37 and it's a big possibility that I may pregnant. I'm experiencing pregnancy symptoms that come and go, I've already taken 2 test that were negative and my Cycle is 6 days late. I've been told that the hcg level may not be high enough to detect pregnancy and that there are some women who have to find out through a blood test. I've scheduled a doctor's appointment for next week but I'm thinking about going before because if I am, I truly fear a miscarriage. Me and you together will get through this with help from our God above, we just have to keep our faith because as women we are the one who knows what our body is going through. Sending prayers your way! Everything is going to be fine.

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

I am so sorry for all that you went through! Its tough! I found this essential oil online to help women become more fertile. I havent tried it but i ordered it and if this pregnancy doesnt work out, il give the oil a try. It sounds ridiciouls but im desperate to be honest. I hope everything goes well for you! Sometimes we have to keep trying and never give up. God bless you and thanks for all your prayers! Im going to pray for you too! ♡

[lucie27]

You might as well take a pregnancy test as you may just be having one of those months where your period decides it's not coming. And then you could talk with your doctor about taking folic acid and possibly progesterone if your likely to miscarry. Good luck tho I do hope you get what you want x

[Mommyof2angels2015]

@ lucie27 I want to take a pregnancy test really bad but it worries me! My period symptoms and pregnancy symptoms are different. I can tell the difference esepcailly with the pain in my breasts and my lower back because that never happens during my period. But im tempted to go and get a pregnancy test but i know im going to get my hopes up and all. I will be 6 weeks this tuesday, i guess i can go to my doctor earlier. Thank you soo much ♡

[showsion]

So sorry for your loss I miscarried at 22 weeks on my first baby and I didn't know I was pregnant I have pcos and was told I would never be able to have children I am now 60 days away from having my little man don't give up I didn't

[rudyrudes1889]

Hello. I am very very sorry for your loss. I know the feeling all too well. I lost my first and third pregnancies and I am 21 weeks currently with my fourth pregnancy. I agree with some of the other posts saying you should get checked for underlying causes. Also as hard as it is the next time u get pregnant try not to worry so much and I know its hard because miscarried at 20 weeks with my 3rd pregnancy and I am still worrying at 21 week. But they to be positive. I pray you get to hold a baby in your arms one day.

[Loiselw]

I'm sorry for the loss but one day you'll have one I know you will. I have so much faith because I feel your love.

[Loiselw]

Oh you have a husband :) my bad

[Loiselw]

I just want to say that thank yo for wanting your baby. I am 4 weeks pregnant and this (I can't even say the word) is my worst fear. Sometimes I wakr up worried that I'm not pregnant anymore. I have one advice, keep the baby happy with good vibrations. Play music. enjoy life, talk to him gently, give him a name. Treat him as a person. And forget about feeling disappointed, just make believe and you'll get it. I know I know anxiety about the future may be difficult to control but if you try, the baby tries too :) (some other things I've learned so far: it is never our fault when we miscarry but has mostly to do with chromosomal mismatch that makes the pregnancy inviable) also has your partner been the same all three times? Somethings to think about. I pray for you and his healthy formation. Love love

[cflem]

I also agree that you should get checked.  There could be an underlying issue causing you to miscarry that can be treated.  I had a miscarriage between my first child and this pregnancy.  I was not making enough hormones, and my dr gave me a prescription to take during the first trimester, and now I am 32 weeks.  It is worth seeing a dr.

[judybob32]

I have been in your shoes. Get your hormones checked. I always miscarried between the same stages as you. I didn't make enough hormones. I am 16 weeks pregnant with my second child. Ask your doctor or ask to be sent to a specialist. I hope this helps!

[subaha123]

Hey sorry to hear that you are bleeding I have heard many women bleed and have healthy pregnancy but no pain you r getting pain as well maybe its start of miscarriage I think u should get an ultrasound done maybe you have got fibroids if they are large this maybe cause of your miscarriages I m sorry please keep us updated I'll pray for you god bless you and save your baby

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

I ended up miscarrying. The bleeding got heavier and i saw some tissue. Im not upset or anything i have been through this before. Same thing over and over again, maybe it just wasnt meant to be. Im glad the pain isnt as bad as it was the past two days. Thank you for the prayers! May God bless you as well. :)

[subaha123]

I am so sorry please get urself checked for fibroids you will need proper treatment for it

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

UPDATE: Last night around 8pm, i started bleeding. The bleeding isnt heavy, but heavy enough to wear a pad. It fills up 25% of the pad. I have really strong cramps. Im in so much pain. I dont know if im miscarrying or not. The pain is stronger than my period yet the blood is less. The blood is a darker red color but bright when i wipe. Nothing but blood. No tissue, nothing. Just blood. Sorry to gross anyone out. So yeah thats whats happening.

[lucie27]

Well if you can hold out until then good for you I'm impatient:). I misscarried before my son and also before this pregnancy so I know your worry. But just because you've had one before doesn't mean you will this time and as you've got morning sickness that's a good sign. I really do hope it goes well for you x

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

Trust me i am impatient too! Ive been dying to get a test but my husband told me to wait, all of this was his idea. I might go in this tuesday. We will see. I am sorry about your miscarriage! Thank you for all your prayers hun! God bless and i really hope so too! ♡

[RainbowSparkle]

Thanks and I hope this pregnancy works for you. Either way I would seek answers. You deserve to know. Please update this forum when you are able to go to the dr. By the way don't worry about the test women know their own bodies. I knew before the test was positive but Walmart does sell 88 cent pregnancy tests just in case you want to make a little scrap book/box for your little one.

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

I do need answers, i talked with my husband this morning and he is willing to get them with me. He wants a baby just as much as i do. I actually have all my previous tests from my past pregnancies, i might have to do that though! This tuesday will be 6th week and i called my doctor and she said the earliest ultrasound i can do is 6 weeka so hopefully i can see my baby this tuesday the earliest. Thank you so much. I will definitely keep posting about this and let everyone know. Let me know how it goes with you as well. Thanks so much hun :)

[RainbowSparkle]

I am praying for you to have all the good vibes this world can muster. I have issues late in pregnancy so,I have buried two that where born at 21 weeks and 29 weeks. It seems everytime I have a little angel, I have a healthy child. I am 27 weeks pregnant and I am constantly scared. Here is my advice to you from experience, take prenatal vitamins and folic acid. B12 can also help along with amega 3 fatty acids (fish oil). If you do happen to miscarry don't give up. Go to your dr and seek answers. Find out if you have a clotting disorder or maybe you and your husband have different blood Types and you need to take shots. It may be as simple as taking a low dose Aspirin everyday to shots or it may be that you need to take estrogen to help strength your uterus due to past birth controls. My drs ran all sorts of test that helped me. Good luck and you are in my prayers.

[lovelymotherof2angelbabies]

Im sorry for what you went through! May this pregnancy be successful! We just have to stay positive no matter what, us being stressed wont change a thing. Im sooo sorry again, i really am. If i end up losing this baby (God Forbid) than it wll be my 3rd miscarriage and some people say thats when gyn usuallu tell you whats wrond and why you keep miscarrying. I will deffintely go to my doctor either way and find out. Im going to pray for you! Please dont worry! I know its hard trust me, but it will get better. Let me know how everything goes, i hope all goes well my friend. No one deserves to go through this. God bless you hun, may God keep this pregnancy a healthy and successful one. I pray that God helps you and heals you from what happened in your past.

[Mommyof2angels2015]

Thank you All ladies for all the great comments. Im going to read them everyday to help me stay positive. It means alot, truly does! May god bless all of you, and answer all your wonderful prayers! I will keep updating as soon as i find out anything! Have a lovely day!

[Benandgabbysmom]

My thoughts and prayers are with you but you have to stay positive. Everything will be okay. This is your time so enjoy it. Every pregnant woman has fears even with the healthy pregnancies. Just get your prenatal vitamins if you don't already have them and get ready to go in and hear some good news when you make your appointment. May God bless you.

[Mommyof2angels2015]

@ benandgabbysmom Thank you so much, im waking up everyday being as postive as possible. My family and husband say the exact same thing. I guess it just depends on the day and how im feeling. One day im positive and one day im negative. I just have to wait and see what happens. Regardless whatever happens its all for the best. Thank you so much hun, God bless you! ♡

[89eb]

I'm going to start off by saying that I am praying for you and your little one God knows what he's doing and he does everything for a reason you have to let the past go and lives in the future everything touch your belly and pray to God that he keep you safe don't think about any negative let the past go this is a new start for you all the miscarriages you had don't think of them just have positive people and have nothing but love surround you you will get through this I'm praying for you

[Mommyof2angels2015]

@89eb That means alot! I try so hard to ignore and let go of what happened in the past but i still fear of losing another one. I think thats a fear all pregnant women have whether they have miscarried before or not. Youre right though, i have to leave it in the past and live my present. God i really hope all this goes well, for all of us pregnant women having difficulties. Thank you again for your prayers, it means so much to me. God bless ♡

[sunain]

Aww bless you . I can totally understand your worry, pain . Its my 3rd pregnancy and i was suffering from really bad morning sickness vomiting heart burn and when i met with dr for antisickness tablets she said think positive if u have morning sickness and vomiting there is less chance of miscarriage.  I hope this time you will carry this pregnancy and will do pray for you. . Take care  

[Mommyof2angels2015]

@ sunain Thank you, may God bless you as well sweetheart! I do have really bad morning sickness and it happens allll day but mostly in the morning but i just dont vomit. I have always had a hard time vomiting. I also have real bad heartburns too. I guess i will keep jotting down all my symptoms day by day until its time to see my doctor. Thank you so much! ♡