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sister in law...monster in law?

My mans sisters is.....well...not the kind of person I get along with and the other way around.how do I deal with the chick now that me and her little brother are having a baby. She's just rude! But she means so much to my man.
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10037378 tn?1420563810
It's better to be away from the fam.. you are starting you're new life with you're baby and you're hubby:) that's what I did and we don't have any drama anymore
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I dont have a problem with my mans sister but when she found out I was having a girl she started showing hatred cause his family is all boys except for her. After she through a temper tantrum about it being a girl me and her dont hang out anymore. I would talk to your man about it. I did and he talked to his sister. She did change her attitude.
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8744108 tn?1411750437
Both my husbands sisters are annoying as hell. One he doesn't talk to, none of the family does. But his other one just has a stink *** attitude every minute of the day. I can't stand her lol but luckily we live no where close to them! Honestly just kindly talk to your man and see what you can work out. You don't wanna put a wedge between him and his family, but she needs to change her ways. You're family now.
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8765505 tn?1399764936
My boyfriends sister is a nightmare - but even he avoids her now seeing how much drama she brings to everything.
His mother is an absolute b! She was awful to me..
I tried ignoring her it didn't work eventually we'd a argument on the phone with us both screaming!  
He heard the things she said and I showed him all the txt messages ' neither of us are speaking to her.
I'm "stealing" her son - lol
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Your not alone my bf's sister doesnt like me either but honestly were not here to please anybody let her *** hate , you must have something that she doesnt shes just jealous. People like that you just gatta ignore

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Im glad to know imnnot alone!
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10013575 tn?1410961435
I was engaged to a guy once and I did not in no way shape or for get along with his sister. Unfortunately, he took her side. I decided to leave for other reasons, which turned out for the better. But...I just took her day by day and had shouting matches whenever we didn't agree. For me, I was "taking away her brother" and "changing him". I don't really have advice for you other than try to talk to your man about it. And possibly ask him to step up for you. You two are now becoming a family. He should be there for you.

Good luck! And I know it's hard.
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Just try and spend as less time with her as possible, and when you have too just try and talk to the there people around. Or just straight up tell her how she makes you feel.
My mans mom is like that I mean we get a long but since I've been oregnant she constantly talks about his exs and **** so I just stay away from her.
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