If my girlfriend is pregnant or not, please help

[Baseball05]

Me and my girlfriend decided to go farther in our relationship. First she started giving me a hand job but I never ejaculated. After that we cleaned up and I started to finger her. We are not sure if there was precum on my finger or not. I read that it's rare for semen to be in precum and if there was it would have died but I do not know if that is true. The next week her period was due and it was a day late and when she had it it was an orangish color. After that she had a normal period. Now this month her period is 4 days late and she might be spotting. Her breasts are increasing in size, she is nauseas, her stomach just started hurting and she has back pain. But we were thinking it was late because of stress and she's been off with her sleep schedule and I read that could be a factor In her late period, but we are not sure. Please help us I am 15 an I'm terrified and so is she. If she is pregnant I will stay with her but i am wondering of she is or not. Please help

[cerrenityand1]

She shouldn't be pregnant there's couple of things that could cause those symptoms is yes one stress and worrying also she's very very young of course her boobs are going to grow more and nausea it is winter she could be getting the flu and another she could scare the crap out of herself so bad she could be convincing herself she is pregnant and it will cause it and also not to be rude but tell her not to get the iud I'm pregnant and I had it .. It fell out I agree with the ladies above get a test and also talk to a very responsible adult about it. Let me know!

[Momma_Chicken]

Can you talk to your parents about this? You two need some guidance and the best thing to do is to ask now, cause you either can be smart or suffer your consequences for not being smart. Cause when she gets pregnant, your parents will find out then, and they will appreciate it much more if you ask them for guidance before that happens. Play this first experience smart so you both dont start up a bad unsafe habit. Your sooooo young

[BabyDame]

She could have an irregular period due to being so young.
But highly unlikely she would have gotten pregnant, since she's the one who was touching your penis. Precum can get a woman pregnant but when having sex. On the hand, it is rare but I guess not impossible.
Spotting can mean pregnancy but there's also other factors.
Like Annie said, find a way to buy a test and take them.

[Baseball05]

Thank you for you help. Also My girlfriend told me that she went to the bathroom and peed, then when she wiped there was brown blood. If that is spotting wouldn't that mean she would be pregnant.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, well that would be a difficult way to get pregnant, but not categorically impossible.  So get her a home pregnancy test.  If she got pregnant a month and a half ago, it will be accurate by now if she uses it with first-morning urine.

And seriously, stop goofing around.  If you two are determined to have sex, I assume you think you are old enough for the responsibilities.  If so, what happened to the responsibility to not make risky moves or blow off using protection?  Even condoms are not entirely reliable, she needs to get on the Pill or get an IUD.  If you say she can't get her parents' permission, think over why that is.  They don't want you and her to have long-term consequences.  I assume neither of you want that either, so please get some good education about contraception and how people get pregnant.

Take care.  My guess is that the spotting is her period coming, but she could rid herself of the worry and stress by testing.

[Baseball05]

By the way we never had sex