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Ok so my girl is 8mths will she get her desire for sex back b4 she drops our baby
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Every pregnancy is different. My friends say that their girlfriends would always turn them down, but my sexual desire has increased like crazy. I'm 38weeks now and it's slowed down a bit because I'm always uncomfortable, and last time I had sex it was a bit painful. Some women go all the way to the end of the pregnancy having sex, just depends on how well you're handling it, and trust me, a girl does not feel too sexy with a big watermelon in between you and her lol, that could be another reason. Just be patient with her, it's not easy at all being pregnant, and I'm sure as much as she would like to have sex, she just can't find herself to do so. Good luck
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Oh no no never pressure don't want n e negative vibes for the baby
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Totally normal and if u pressure her it could make her feel worse!! Its all hormones some time s they get things going and other times they makes us  feel undesirable and tired and unworthy and just plain ole tired. Can't be helped.
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Shes gonna kill me when she finds out I ask about it but I just had to find out if her desire decreasing was normal
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I agree ^^

Just make a night all about her try and put her in the mood :)
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I know several girls who never lost their sex drive during pregnancy hormones can just take over some women. A little advice maybe make ur all about her and see where ur goes might help get things going. Not to mention most of us feel like big giant whales after so many months it's mostly in our own heads but it can take a huge tole in our self esteem. It is not her fault and iits so important to be on her side and fully supportive which ever choice y'all make. Have fun and be understanding of her needs. Good luck!
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Damn ok
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In some women sex is always there but the majority just feel full with the baby n they go through a lot that sex is the least they need or want but don't worry after a month of giving birth she will have a normal sex drive like before. In some cases though women tend to have sex in their last month to help them induce labor.
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Honestly every person is different i only had sex with my boyfried twice thru this whole pregnancy im just not in the mood.    :(
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