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needing to vent avoit fiance again

We've been together for 4 years, but he still pisses me off when he trys to become friends with younger girls anywhere he works . Yes I get jealous but with reason. He likes to flirt and likes when they flirt back. He's trying to hang with this girl thats 18 and wants to take her camping with him cause he likes camping. And I'm like have you told her you're engaged and expecting a baby and he says no not yet.
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That's a no no mama, I wouldn't trust him, and if I don't trust my partner, I don't think I would be with him, it doesn't matter if you talk to him or no, I don't think he would pay much attention to the conversation
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If he really cared he wouldn't be doing UT in the first place.  Also men do tend to do thingsthey know they can get away with.
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Ahh what an as*hole! Obviously his family is not as important to him. He still needs to grow up & he lives with his parents still. Dam you gotta talk to him clearly & tell him what you want. I'd try talking some sense into him or talk to his parents & if I don't see no results, just leave him. You don't need that kind of bs in your life.
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You should confront him and ask why not bring guys along instead of  girls?  That kind of behavior is disgusting.  Don't be afraid to get mad at him, because he IS doing something he shouldn't be doing.
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9961264 tn?1410873329
I would find out who it is and make sure ahe understands he has a fiance and a bahy on the way! And if they do something after that they are both scum.
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Let him know how you feel about it, tell him you don't trust it and if there is nothing going on then he wouldn't mind you tagging along. It's inappropriate and the timing is all off for him to be being an insensitive jerk. You have to make choices now not just for you but for your child. A "man" wouldn't even put you in a situation like that! Seriously you have some reconsidering to do! My best advice BTW my first post lol
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Do what's best for you and your baby!!!!
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You will find a better man in the near future.

That problem happened to me and I divorced him. I got married almost four years later and I'm happy.

But you know one thing MEN DONT CHANGE!!!! I'm 31 and seen it all. :/
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**** that! Tell him if he goes camping with some dumb **** that you're going out of town for the weekend with someone else. See how his *** likes it. You have every right to be pissed. If it was my man I'd smack the **** outta him.
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I'd be checking his phone and the bill to see who he's texting and talking too. He don't sound like a guy who is truly comitted.
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Why the heck would he invite another girl to go camping with him?! That'd **** me off & I'd be putting him in his place no way I'm dealing with that and you shouldn't either hun!! Your pregnant
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I went thru something similar with my husband during my 1st pregnancy. He pissed me off thoroughly and constantly with that. He still does it every once in a while when I don't give him what he wants (sex). I am almost 32 weeks pregnant and sex with him gross me out because he smokes cigarettes and he stinks. And that turns my stomach almost nd me off.
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I told him I said if I find out you did something im done I'm not going to deal with this crap with a baby on the way.
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Sounds like hes trying to get with the other girl. U should def put ur foot down or he will walk all over you. Like its ok and you know and feel deep down inside you know your worth and that is not ok.am sorry your going threw this. Its up to you to change things
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9961264 tn?1410873329
Hes acting like hes 17. Who in their right mind thinks its okay to invite a girl, whos not your gf/fiance/wife, to go camping. No. thats ridiculous. Just the thought of it makes me mad...
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He shouldnt be flirting with girls period. Set some rules or get rid of him. You do not need that for you or your baby
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He's 22. He's like you just don't bring that up randomly into a convo. We live with his parents right now. It upsets my stomach and makes me want to cry. I don't think he's ever cheated cause when we uses to get into serious fights I wouldn't talk to him and would push him away and he would  apologize and get upset that I wasn't talking to him and wouldn't leave me alone till I did
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He does not need to be inviting girls anywhere! I'd be pissed! You and baby need to be the main focus and most important in his life!
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9961264 tn?1410873329
How old is he?
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If he thinks that behavior is okay, and ok to go out and hang with this girls, and go camping,  them you need to kick him to the curb. Cause 1 he either has already cheated, or 2 he is about too.
Men don't just go around flirting and camping with other females. You should give him a taste of his own medicine,  and see what he has to say about it.
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That is messed up!! I flip out when my husband is around other girls that I don't know. When I see them I go up to them and make it known who I am!! My husband doesn't like it cuz I get mad but o well I get my point across. I would not let him talk to other girls. I get jealous too but that Is just not called for!!
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I would raise all types of hell. That is just me though
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8364464 tn?1408312392
Wtf "no not yet"?? I would of threw a pot at him -.- Don't let him disrespect yoy that way . If you're not comfortable speak up and if he can't respect what you have to say then he can go camping on the couch
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10069934 tn?1408164172
Sounds like a real heartbreaker.
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