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[Neishak20]

So for the past few days I've been seeing some posts about how a few of you ladies
are starting to hate your husbands/boyfriends. I'm not one to judge but I really hope it's just hormones because the thought of that saddens me nd pisses me off. I don't think I could ever hate my bf. On top of that, some of them have complete support from their partner/family. This is my very first pregnancy but my bf already has two boys so he puts all his energy into taking care of them nd he does think about our unborn, but I feel like its not that important to him. Me nd him are the only ones who know so I really have no support nd just thinking about it makes me wanna cry. Yup, I have no one to vent to or nothing so I just keep it all inside. My hormones rage from time to time, but it wouldn't make me hate em. Just had to share my thoughts because things could always be much worse. Lemme know your opinions & advice, thanks.

[Neishak20]

Can't say it'll help tho. I just know things could be so much better, even if he does have experience, he can still be there for me in more ways than one.

[Neishak20]

@missymarie214 lol thanks I'll talk to him. Can't say itll

[missymarie214]

The reason he doesn't find it a big deal is because he's already done it, and knows that it really isn't. When it's your first, everything is more intense, and seems like a much bigger deal than it has to be, but once you've already been there, and done that, it's a lot different. Things don't seem as big of a deal once you have experience. Talk to him about it, and let him know that it's still new to you, even if it isn't to him. Men tend to have to be reminded about things lol Also, for those who are having off feelings about their SO, it's all hormones. They'll go away eventually! :)

[Neishak20]

@specialmom it doesn't make me angry, it makes me worried nd sad. I go through everything alone. Everytime I try to talk to him or want to talk to him, he makes it seem like I'm just worried nd he has everything under control..like it's no big deal, when in reality, babies are a big deal! Nd it doesn't help that I'm extra emotional. But like I said, he has two other sons..sometimes it feels like distancing
himself from me.

[specialmom]

I think that it is normal to have ups and downs with your partner.  Only when we feel like we have to 'fight' to hang on to our partner is that kind of forbidden territory to us.  Does it not make you angry he is not fully interested or invested in your baby Neishak20?  

[Neishak20]

@Emmyou I'm glad to hear that. Not everybody has that much support from their partner, which I think is crazy. Plus, people should keep in mind that women go through hormonal changes nd their husbands/boyfriends probably go through some emotional changes too! I suck at communication lol but it's always good to talk.

[Neishak20]

@jesssus if you're really worried maybe you can go to the ER or schedule a doc appt. I know spotting is normal but if it's heavy nd you're afraid it could be something wrong, I'd
go to the hospital.

[jesssus]

It starts light but as it goes it gets heavy when I get a blood work my hcg goes down that mean I had a miss carriage at 6 weeks last pregnancy and tomorrow I was starting my 6 weeks and I started bleeding some hrs ago

[Emmyou]

Wow this post makes me happy! I am glad some see it the right way. My hubby has been wonderful through all of iot and he's so excited! I don't have hormonal anger issues or whatever u all call it! When I get upset I go and pray! And on our wedding day I do believe I said for better or worse! We disagree but we have never had a fight or hit each other or used a curse word. Everyone's different! I was just happy to see this!

[Neishak20]

Is it light or heavy ? Is it painful ?

[jesssus]

Can someone please tell me why in my 6 weeks off pregnancy I start bleeding this is my second pregnecy and I can't pass from the 6 weeks please im so confused and heart broken this is my second one and is the same storie

[Neishak20]

@dianneee i understand. He's probably just nervous about the pregnancy. As for your family, that's messed up that they cut you off while you're pregnant nd because you're pregnant. Besides your bf, family is supposed to give you the most support. Even if they don't like it or agree w/ it, you can't undo the pregnancy. The least they can do is be there for you emotionally.

[deman26]

Waoooh! Dis is encouraging....my husband and I stay apart.hes in texas am in md wif my aunt.its crazy rating preggy under other pple roof.but he's been supportive and putting more effort each day. I don't think av spent a $ on this pregnancy.even if all he give is not enough to have excess! He's been providing all we need. He en wen I get pissed he will alwz be the 1 to calm me down.and I will tell him preggy is funny...now u are happy d next moment u all re sad.like he's reading some stuffs on his on.hes been awesome this past 6mnths.preparing himself for fatherhood.thou he used to get upset a lot but now he's controlling it and keep saying u are my pride..

[kayleebug13]

Hate is just a strong word, especially if they are supporting you throughout your pregnancy. Me and my fiancé bicker of course and get frustrated at each other but I still love him more then anything. We are expecting baby #2 in May. . No one really knows what they have till they don't have it anymore appreciate what you have (:

[dianneee]

In the same boat I have no one to vent too and my boyfriend whom I have a kid with already is supportive but its like he wants to be single and since ive gotten pregnant again my family has cut all ties with me which hurts and I dont have any friends I hate and love him at the same time