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Irritated!!!!

- I come home from visiting my dad & walking.
I come home really tired, and I just want to rest, but no... I see my shower scrubber on the floor, NO ONE IS SUPPOSE TO USE BUT ME & MY BF. There's **** on the bathroom floor by the shower, it wasn't itty bitty pee, it WAS A F'N PUDDLE OF PEE. Like really? What are you a dog? I swear I'm getting tired of my bf's little brother. One time I stepped in his SH*T!!! I don't know how someone can SH*T ON THE FLOOR.
2. He never does put up the toilet seat.
3. He's so dirty & he only takes a minute shower.  

I don't know why his mother doesn't teach him how to use the toilet, he's ten years old going on eleven in july!!! He's not a baby, he weighs 155 pounds... idk why he can't **** and poop in the toilet..  I'm so grossed out... I need my son to come so I can move out already & get away feom this dirty place
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8623769 tn?1399092180
Dont get stressed out. Remember baby can feel when mommy isnt happy. As for that kid, have you tried getting your bf to speak to him?

Love. Linn
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Wow that is some bad parenting. Talk to your boyfriend because thats not okay! Best wishes
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- Oh my boyfriend doesn't like to get involved either... which irritates me because he's the older brother & should teach these kids.... And let me tell you, it wasn't accidental ****, it wasn't even close to the toilet...
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That's disgusting. And so not normal. That kid needs mental help. Pooping on the floor? Really really disturbing
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Yeah he really does, something isn't right. Especially because he's potty trained, and old enough! -__- & no one bothers to teach him.
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My momma woulda slapped the **** outta me. And my 2 year old is better at useing potty. Damn. Like seriously thats not a good place for a baby. Human fecies can cause ecoli. And my best friends neice litterly almost died last year becausw of it..
You need outta there. Also, you need to tell them parents to step up before ypu call dhs. YEAH i said it dhs. Threaten them. Thats ******* gross and if that boy doesnr know better hes being parented bybthe WRONG people!  Best wishes hunny lemmie know how things go
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Actually, I'm moving in with my boyfriends dad & step mom where it's cleaner & has ac, and perfect for the baby, I only have six days left till my due date & I'm trying to have him come out soon so I can leave...

Well, we live with my boyfriends great gma & she takes care of these kids, while the mother lives with her boyfriend and does drugs...  the grandma doesn't want them to live with their fathers... I get so mad.. why take care of kids when you can't teach them how to do stuff right?!!!
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wow , iv never heard of a grown child using the restroom. ... on the floor :s thats sick af .. and deff not normal dude.
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Yes, it's not F'n normal, idk why no one slaps the F outta him
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Maybe he acts out because his mama does what she does, honestly thats kinda mean and judgemental.. My brother was born premature and has had lots of operations growing up, hes a teenager and still has problems peeing in the toilet. Maybe your bf tells you not to get involved for a reason.
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It's no judgemental, my bf doesn't get involved because they don't listen to him anyways. Dont tell me I'm being judgemental. Because that isn't nornal!
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- well that's your brother, he was born pre mature, my boyfriend brother is normal, he doesn't have problems... peeing on the ground (NOT NEAR THE TOILET" Isn't normal. I'm not beong judgemental, that's f'n sick!
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Im so sorry girl, just remember youll body will go when its ready jist make sure. If your in a dirty place have your bf clean more for you your close to delievery n would be terr if you got an infection of any sort! Ill still be praying mommyyyyy poorr ild lady
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8591317 tn?1410732068
Omg Girl. I'm surprised you lasted soo long with this. It angers me just when my bf leaves hair on the soap, on the sink and doesn't flush the toilet after peeing in the mornings. It reeks! But if someone sh** on the floor! All hell  would break loose.  Idgaf who did it I will put on some gloves, grab that sh** and either throw it at them or put it in the spot where they sleep. So they feel they're own sh**! Ugh
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Thank you ladies for agreeing w/ me... it's nasty as ****!!!! I literally forced the puke out of me that day.. i was grossed the f out.. nobody confessed to ******** on the floor. I've been living with hkm for a yr now!!! Oh man. It just gets worst!
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I had a younger cousin that my grandmother took custody over, and this little girl did the same thing.. But  she was a little younger.. But still old enough to know better.. Anyways.. She would sleep walk and have accidents in the house.. Well, we took her to see a counselor and come to find out, her mother was very abusive and would lock her in a bedroom for days and  the little girl was forced  use the restroom in the corner of her bedroom. I'm not saying that it's the same for your case, I'm just saying there has got to be a reason.
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Aw that broke my heart...

My boyfriend brother was always taken care of my my boyfriends grandmother since he was a baby... so idk what his problem is...
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Some kids are just lazy a-holes looking attention. Others are jealous of someone and wanting attention. A friends little brother is 9 and poops in his pants. He either don't wanna get up from a video game or he just dont care sometimes. He started doing it when his brother was found to have kidney problems and needing another. He wants something to be wrong with him because his brother is sick! Its disgusting. And my bfs youngest son hurts himself and pees himself in time out sometimes cause he's jealous of his autistic older brother. So either he's just a lazy butt head or he is maybe jealous of u or u and ur baby. Sometimes they have other issues they don't like in school they. Don't tell anyone. But none of that is an excise to act like u donno how to potty.
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I do know he doesn't wipe his butt, and he doesn't like to take a good shower because he says "it takes time out of video games" so that could be a reason.. he stays on the computer 24/7.
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Yep sounds lazy. Donno of you're old enough to have experienced this but in my childhood we player outside or read a book or drew pictures. Had a one hour limit on tv, video games, and computer. Kids these days have parents that dgaf and use technology to parent their kids. Its really sad cause its turning a lot of kids into the one u unfortunately have to deal with for now.
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I never liked to watch tv I was always active, did gymnastics, and went to the beach.

I mean we had like a playstation but never played it... these kids are spoiled... they want something, they get it... I guess because they all have different dads & the mom only comes around to get food.. so they deserve everything... they don't do chores, they don't wash dishes, clean their room, or empty the trash... sh*t they don't even go outside...

Their room is infested with cockroaches idk how they can live like this...  not little cockroaches! Big flying ones!!!
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- It's sad, my boyfriends brother is ten years old & he is a little cry baby, you tell him to do something he won't do it he will cry... he yells at his GREAT grandma when she cooks something he doesn't like, he weighs 155 pounds @TEN YEARS OLD.
He doesnt wash his hands, he doesn't really shower, he gets in, and gets out no soap, or shampoo.
He pees on the floor, if it's not on the floor it's all over the toilet seat.. He says "go to hell" or "f you" to his great grandma when she tells him to go to bed or to get off the computer, the person who takes care of him? She buys him anything he wants and same goes for my boyfriends sister who is six years old & she's rotten to, she told the grandma " I hope you die like grandpa" the grandma is 82 years old & she does everything for these kids..  I can't stand it..  
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Awww I feel bad for grandma. :-( that little old lady shouldn't be spending her last days and last dollars on those horrible children. Those kids need some discipline & respect.
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