Thank you for that it means alot.
Financial problems put a huge strain on any relationship. Men feel like they have to provide for their family and maintain a certain lifestyle for them and when they don't or can't, for whatever reason, they feel like they failed, which is causing him even more stress. Tell him how much you love and appreciate him and how hard he works for you and your kids. Then sit down and have a real conversation with him but don't put him down or accuse him of anything. Every relationship goes through rough patches, but if you really love each other you will make it through it and will probably come out stronger. I hope everything goes well:)