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another fight! someone please help :(
So as I've posted bunch of times my boyfriend wants our son named after him.. I'd do if he we didn't fight all the time and he wasn't constantly trying to kick me out of the house.. So today finally I gave in and I told him that if he can not try to kick me out from now until the baby's born then I'll name our son after him.. Then he says to me that he's ready to give up on us... What did I do that's so wrong!? He's so mean to me and idk what to do anymore :(
Why are you doing what he wants? This is your baby too. When you are a couple you make Every decision together. He sounds extremely immature and controlling. Soon your world will revolve around your baby, I hope you realize that. Leave before the situation gets worse. Your worth more than he can give.
He sounds childish & manipulative. No way I'd let him bully me into naming my son after him. Ur the one carrying the baby... & the power. Tell him to kiss ur azz!
I know it's hard but you have to show him that you are strong and are worth alot! If you don't value yourself how do you expect him to!? That's why he treats you that way...maybe when he realizes you are serious this time by putting your foot down he will be afraid of loosing you and change but if you just keep letting him treat you that way expect that over and over again...
Talk to him tell him how you feel , tell him youre going to stay at a family members house for a week to figure out what you both want (being together wise) ! Me and my hubby argue too sometimes but i tell him how i feel and he understands. Just tell him how you ffeel try to work things out for baby
Time to leave! Please do not name your son after this dead beat. You are pregnant and he is treating you awful. Why would you want your son to have the same name as someone you ultimately need to break up with or you don't and he continues to treat you bad. He sounds self absorbed.
If he loves you and truley cares he will change to get you back. If not he is not even worth your love or time
It hurts at first but time will only heal. Before you know it you will see you deserved way better. What man kicks his preg wife out or even thinks or says it. You need to leave not only for you but for your son. All these ladies are right and it does only get worse. If he is not willing to change why change yourself. Verbal abuse turns into physical and worse. I seen it myself several times and it only goes down hill even leading to death at times. Do you want your son to do what he is doing to you to another when he is a older? Do you want to be the reason another women feels the way you do now. What would you tell your daughter to do if you had one. The pain will heal over time and it sou ds like leaving is the best option.
Don't worry you will be sad for a little while but the more time you spend away you will realize you deserve way better and more in love with the idea of him. Then you will meet someone who actually treats you good and forget about him all together. Stay strong:) things will get better life's to short to be treated like ****.
I don't think he's cheating.. He's just a very mean person... It's how he was raised. I know I should leave and in the long run its the best decision for me and my son I'm just so broken :(
Leave while you can it's harder when the baby is here I know I've been there
dolly, you need to leave him!
Men don't change - maybe for a little bit before they go back to them selves.
The more you run after a man the more he doesn't want you, men likes to chase their women. But if your the best girl in the world and he is acting like the last idiot than clearly he doesn't even have simple respect towards you.
If he respect you, then maybe you could work on things.
Men don't change - maybe for a little bit before they go back to them selves.
The more you run after a man the more he doesn't want you, men likes to chase their women. But if your the best girl in the world and he is acting like the last idiot than clearly he doesn't even have simple respect towards you.
If he respect you, then maybe you could work on things.
Leave! When I first got pregnant with my first son , the sperm donor was such a jerk to me. He was always yelling and cheating. I wanted my child to have his dad but it wasn't worth it. My son would have grown up to be just like him. I'm now happily married and my husband and son adore each other. Sometimes you just need to let go and do what is best for the baby. Also think of how mean he'll be to the baby when he has a crying fit.
Sounds like to me he is either cheating on u. The reason why i say this is because u did nothing wrong and he is finding everything to cause conflict in yall relationship and threatened to kick the mother of his child out.honey it might be hard at first to leave but in the end u and your child will be okay.i been through a similar situation
I completely agree with comet. She couldn't have said it better babe. Leave.. matter fact run darling. And when you do do not talk to him. Sounds like he would weasel his way back in by being sweet. Dont. That only last for a brief time. Take it from me I know first hand. He is never going to change sweetie. Again stop communication with him until you stop feeling so vulnerable. Good luck and STAY STRONG!
It gets better, everyday you wake up is a chance to put right what went wrong yesterday.
I ask one thing of you, love and value yourself first. You are having a son. Your raising someone's future husband and dad so show him what a good person looks and acts like.
I ask one thing of you, love and value yourself first. You are having a son. Your raising someone's future husband and dad so show him what a good person looks and acts like.
I'm leaving and it hurts really really bad... Will it ever get better? :(
He's being childish. If you guys are having problems like this over naming your son then I DEFINITELY wouldn't name your son after him. If there's a possibility of him leaving, I'd hate for you to have to say his name with your son.
I think it's a childish fight, I don't think your baby's name should be based on how he's dad acts...and I also think your baby daddy is trying to control you 100% and when you get a bit out of he's control he tries to regain power by threatening to kick you out or leave you....you should love and value yourself way more and leave if that's what he wants you to do, but don't look back! Because when you keep bowing down he will continue to treat you the same way, and if you leave and he goes out of he's way to get you back then you will know if he really loves you or not. You are going to have a baby focus on him/her and yourself let that joy fulfill your needs and put the rest aside, good luck.
It only gets worst. You don't need your son to see this leave while you can! He must be on drugs. His head not in the right place and neither is yours if you don't leave. Like I said it only gets worst
The best thing to do is leave! I know he's the father of your baby but don't be with someone who treats you like crap! You don't need to be stressing out, you need to enjoy your pregnancy. If you have to do what he says to be happy, it's just unfair!! Don't settle for something ******, there's many man out there that will love a girl with a baby & appreciate them.
As far as naming him after him... I personally wouldn't. He sounds like an ***. Why name your beautiful little boy after an *******?
Sounds like he's being childish if he keeps threatening just leave you will be better off I promise
I know it's just so hard :( my heart is broken
Hunny, I know he's the father of your child but you need to leave him. I don't know your current situation as far as family members or close friends you could stay with but the last thing you need is him treating you like this. You deserve much better than someone who doesn't want you around. Its not an easy thing to do but it sounds like leaving him would be the best thing for you and your son.
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