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Life after death

I recently found out that im pregnantwith my fourth child. Im excited but nervous at the same time. My boyfriend and i lost our oldest son who was four. But know he's freaking out saying he doesn't want anymore kids  what do i do
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I am currently in the same situation as you. I lost my oldest same three who was 11 two years ago and am currently pregnant. I believe that he will come around. It's just something that you both have to work through. He's probably harboring a fear about something happening to your currently unborn child in the future and not wanting to deal with another loss like that. I suggested talking to a counselor and going through some grief classes. Maybe he isn't fully through grieving and feeling as if he's not ready to move on yet.
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I think so to.
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Im so sorry for your loss :(.  I'm sure your boyfriend is just scared.   He'll come around & plus the baby is coming whether he's ready or not.
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