I know its tough, and strange, and sometimes you'll feel like a walking talking science experiment lol but just know that you're doing something important. Don't let people make you feel bad about all the things you'll be "missing out on", being a mom is awesome! Its rewarding and fulfilling...its the only 24hour job where the benefits dont kick in right away BUT when they do (3 months down the line or for some sooner)... you'll love it.