Missing sex

[army_mommy_to_be]

My baby girl is 2 weeks old and I miss the sex I had with my hubby, he is a big tease and turns me on and then is like nope u have to wait 4 more weeks :( do you have to wait the 6 weeks or can u have sex before :/ my hubby and I have a big sex drive do were not usto going this long without it :(

[babyIvy_42715]

keagles exercies..and I had pain like cramping and sharp pain...I was worried that something was wrong or I was pregnant but I was fine...

[army_mommy_to_be]

Did anyone experience pain before you had sex before the 6 weeks?

[army_mommy_to_be]

How do you exercise those muscles? Might b tmi for some but we also do anal and its not that I don't like it I just prefer not to. I'm supposed to be getting in BC so hoping by 6 weeks I'll be okay.

[babyIvy_42715]

I didn't wait 6 weeks I waited 3 weeks my body had stopped bleeding and I felt perfect...know your body...I have been having sex since my baby was  3 weeks unprotected  she is 6 months and I just found out im pregnant :)..its totally up to you I mean when has having sex early actually hurt someone or killed someone I never heard anything about it...but now I want to google it!!!!lol

[figaro08j]

You should wait. Give him oral, you can masterbate,  but no intercourse.  I waited like 8 weeks. I excerise my muscles. I wanted it to be tight. I was like a newborn vergin. Lol

[BMommy2be1996]

I only waited 4 and at my 6 week check up was pregnant with twins. My doctor said twins are very likely right after you give birth so be careful if you don't want any more kids yet! Lol.

[haleygriffith]

Im right there with daliah719. Im pretty sure i might be pregnant again. I used protection but condom broke. So have a back up plan also.

[army_mommy_to_be]

I did get small stitches and I do prefer to be as tight as I can be. Although ik itlll never be the same. I wanna try but my husband and I always have rough sex and so I don't think being slow and gentle would work for us :(

[Daliah719]

I will tell you my story. I had sex two weeks in from c section. It was more painful than pleasurable even with a c section. I got pregnant again. It really ruined my plans. Use pertection. Fyi as previous labor and deliver nurse, if you had natural delivery stitches will become loose if go through with it. If it doesn't matter to have a tight... yeah, and you can deal with the pain, I guess the only concern will be fertility. Protection ladys, enjoy wine, live life before you go at it again.

[kathrine1981]

I would wait the 6 weeks. I didn't wait and ended up being pregnant when I went in for my 6 week checkup. But if you don't wait use protection and if it is painful it means your body is not ready for sex.

[emmas_mommy_]

I have the exact same problem we've tried, but it still hurts and baby is 3 weeks old we're going to try maybe some lube to help it maybe but we haven't tried yet

[licia31]

I only waited 2 wks to. Just slow and protection

[Kirbygracee]

But *

[Kirbygracee]

I'd say it's completely up to you buy wear protection

[haleygriffith]

I only waited two weeks. I also had a csection though.

[EEmommy]

I only waited 4 weeks with my first 2 and was just fine. Just use a condom and try not to be to rough.

[maw4389]

It's up to you.