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8480294 tn?1406317697

hate my bd rant

I know some people won't care about what I have to say but I have to let this anger out and vent. My BD thinks that he has always been there for me when he barely has. His family never asked me not once since I got pregnant how im feeling especially his mom. she only talks to me when me and my bd has problems and she wants to defend him. Hes a grown *** man he doesn't need to be defended by mommy. I was at the hospital for almost a week for a heart problem and not once have I received a call from them to see if I was still alive or dead. When he comes once in a blue moon he brings stuff then expects me to lick his toes in gratitude because he brought something. If we argue he doesn't speak to me for almost a month and doesnt show up. He was supposed to make things right with my dad and instead he made it worse. His family was supposed to come and talk to my family and they never came not once not even a little bit of effort. And im always seen as the bad person always. I hate him so much. Today is his birthday and he expected me to go all out and write him a birthday letter like wth? I told him I wasn't going to give our baby his last name cause he hasn't done squat but complain like a b****. Hes lucky im not cruel and won't tell him when the baby is born until he turns a year -__-
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8480294 tn?1406317697
That's what my mom just finished telling me this. He claims that I haven't done anything for him like I honestly can't take it anymore
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I wld tell u to completely cut him out of urs and the baby's life before he hurts both of u!  U can still be a strong independent mommie and not have ur BD there to ruin things. Not all parents include both mom and dad sometimes one or the other has to be. U shld keep only a few pictures of the father for when ur baby asks abt the situation but until then don't keep  urs and ur babies hopes up! Not every BD makes them a father, it's a MAN that stays. Plus there are a few good men still willing to be a dad where the child isn't his . That's a father! Ur BD sounds like a sperm donor Hun! He rather make than take responsibility like a father should.
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8480294 tn?1406317697
No im no longer dating anymore
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Ummm... here's a story.  "Ahh damn I had a miscarriage, sorry.  Ttyl."  And have the baby.  You dont need a half *** "dad".  Whats he gonna do when the baby gets here? Pull a casey Anthony because the baby wouldn't stop crying and "he expected more from him/her"  
i would beat his *** and his Mommas.  Rant all you want.  As long as it isnt about lunch meat lol
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9442948 tn?1406816451
Are you dating him?
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