My Husband

[Faith_Sarai]

I think my post from earlier was deleted. I thank you all for your comments. I did talk to him and he explained that they are friends and he disguised her name because he knows I ask alot of questions. Ladies I'm no fool, but I definitely feel like one because I have no hard proof he explained each message and it made sense but I don't believe him. I don't believe in divorce unless he beating and for sure cheating. All I know to do is pray. I can't talk to my family because they will go crazy. We are really close and we love hard. But how am I supposed to go on at this church. I don't completely believe him but again I have no proof. I'm pregnant with his child

[Faith_Sarai]

Thanks fir your guy's advice I really honestly appreciate it.

[Mel_Singh]

I think u should ask her too...and is her husband aware of the texting? If its not a big deal,and its only friendship then theres no reason to worry... a line does need to be drawn though..a pastor wife should know better then that, that just common sense not to text a married man.

[jessika_thomas]

I delt with something similar with my husband. His ex came back into his life that he was head over heels for. He started calling he pet names and everything. Took me threatening to go back home and packing for him to relize what he had done. Probably doesn't help that back in high school he tried to cheat on me then after he got back from afgan made promises he never kept but I guess. You just have to remind him you love him and want to make this work. As for my husband I haven't seen him talk to his ex gf ever since especially when he found out about our child.

[NewMomma199]

I didn't see your earlier post, but I would drop it until you have proof. Asking him non stop about it will only keep it on your mind and will irritate him. I would tell him it hurt your feelings he felt the need to hide something. But I say try to work it out for your child's sake. I'm married as well and I strongly believe you entered a strong commitment. If he's changing, I'd talk to him about it and let him know you need him to be in 100%.

[aylinn829]

If he didn't own up to nothing now he won't do it later I mean all you have is to try and work things out and make sure he doesn't do it again

[katese]

You should ask the girl I did

[ericatoday]

Yeah. I understand especially if you have no actual proof he's cheating. And even if he's not cheating. He's absolutely being untrustworthy towards you with hiding things. Even if you ask a lot of questions it shouldn't matter he married you and all your questions. And he should never hide anything from you because that will just cause more questions and more problems. I wouldn't trust what he says right now.

[Faith_Sarai]

No it's our first child. You make a good point I would like to do that...a nd Erica I think so as well but I feel so stuck

[ericatoday]

I didnt see your last post. But he shouldn't be hiding any girls names from you period. Sounds like he's hiding something.

[AnnabelWilson18]

Maybe go to a personal counselor about it or ask him to go to marriage counseling with you, not to fix problems, just to prepare yall for what's to come of yalls relationship when there is a baby in the picture because that's a huge change.  Unless you already have kids then I guess that's out lol.

[Faith_Sarai]

Should I just let it go and wait until I have proof proof or keep asking until I can't ask anymore