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11358685 tn?1435968202

Name Change

So my baby daddy just made it official that we are not going to be together after 3 years of being together and 3 weeks before our son is born.
He was gonna be named after him to be a Jr but after this I don't want that.
So I decided to change his name but I don't know if it sounds good.
Josiah/Josaiah Adriel Villagomez?
Any opinions?
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13167 tn?1327194124
Well,  I don't even think I'd name the baby his last name.  

You will probably go on to have more children in the future,  and the fewer last names that are in your household the better.  

And I like Josiah.  Very pretty - and everyone knows how to spell.
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11358685 tn?1435968202
He has never supported me through out my pregnancy at all. He never did anything to make me happy. He hasnt bought anything for my son. Would you name your son after him of hes acted that way he hit me twice while pregnant and pushed me. Does he really deserve it?
He has in his mind that I'm a ho* a bit** anything in the book. My clothes don't even fit and I don't any clothes for my self after I give birth . He has never tried to make me happy. Whenever I don't want to have intercourse he says  saving it for someone else. Its not me being childish . he has been saying he's going to buy stuff for him since 2 months ago. Instead he goes with his friends and waste 800$ in one weekend with them
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If the father plans on being in his son's life, the two of you should name him what will make both of you happy. Will the BD be okay with naming your son another name that both of you like? I understand your reasoning of not wanting a jr. if you're not going to be with the dad, especially if it is a painful breakup. However if you two already agreed on it, and BD plans to be a good father and positive influence in his child's life it's not right to take it away because you two are breaking up.
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I agree with opi83. A little bitter and childish. But he is your son you do what you must. With saying that the Josiah is really pretty.
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So, because he has decided to no loner be in a relationship with YOU his son can't be a Jr. any more? I don't understand your decision. That's called being bitter and if u start this pattern it will only lead to "baby daddy, baby mama drama". You dint say that he dint want a relationship with his son...u said you....
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I agree with giving him the guys last name, but not naming him after him. My bf wants me to make this kid the 4th, after him. I am totally against it, for multiple reasons.
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