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Me and my fiance have broken up and i am 32weeks and 5 days pregnant.ever. since. I found out i was pregnant. There has been so much arguing. And uncomfort between. Us lately its been so much worst and my pregnancy has been the worse. But since the break up i cant sleep ive been so depress and i a worried for my child. I feel lost and alone but this beautiful. Person. N side me kicks every. I start to cry basically telling me to stay strong. and he loves me. I nee advice how to not dwell in this depression . Plz???
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Thank you ladies for everything. Uou dont know what u done for me my past i was diagnosed. Manic. Bipolar. And at young age depression. Almost. Won and i am glad i didnt take my life . And i am Blessed.to know other women are out there to help me giving encourgeing advice through this time.i pray God truly. Blesses. U abudentlty. Even though there just words they give postive light in someones life! Thank u
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I am so sorry but thank u so much for those comforting. Words i should knew when he canceled are wedding. Things were going to fall apart but. Your right mu future is my son they always say watch who u have children. by but life has it way i know it will get better because u made. It through and i will to thanks love
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There is a reason why god gave women the gift to have babies and not men. Men are weak. If they can just walk out because they can't handle it how would they ever survive being the one carrying the baby. Because the woman's experience is way worse and we have to stick it through all the way. Your a woman your stronger and have to remember that.
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Im so sorry for all the typos and spellig errors. I have the worst phone on the planet! Omg!
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Ry beinf thankful that u arent in a worse situation, like beig a abused, or being with someone who doesnt want anything to do with the baby, or has been deported to war. Once u realize ur situation isnt that bad and that u have loved ones and the neans to take care of your child well, it will help u to realize there could be worse things to complain about other than being single and pregnant. There are homeless pregnant women, very low income, some who have been raped, some who cabt kocate the babies father, some who have husband's who were murdered, some who have no family at all and no babys father. It helps me when i start to complain because i know i will be ok and my baby will have what it newds, even though my situation isnt perfect. No im not narried and my relationship with babys dad isnt pwrfect, but her is willing to be in babys life, he can provide, he has a family that will help, i have a home and a job and some income. So i ask myself, why sit gere abd feel sorry for myself jist because we dont have a fairytale relationship? I hope his helps :-)
Best of luck to your baby and motherhood!
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Being that I just left mine , I know the feeling. I had to realize that fighting & arguing everyday is worst on the baby. Its ok to be sad, but dnt let it consume you. One thing that helps ms cope is focusing on baby & my older daughter 100%. I mean im planning baby showers, bday parties, budgeting, getting essentials. Might sound like im over doing it, but it keeps my mind off of it
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Your destiny is on the other side of fear. Don't let fear of the unknown keep you from moving forward. Your baby needs you and you need your baby.  You are almost at the finish line to see your reward. Hang in there!
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My husband left when I was 5 months pregnant. It's very depressing at first but time does heal. I'm sorry we're going through this.  It's hard to imagine the future when we're living in the present,  but maybe it's a blessing?  Maybe the best is yet to come... Take one moment at a time.  Hang in there sweetie.
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Ill try that thank u so wolfeenix it will help me better focus. On whos important. my baby
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Surround yourself with people that care about you.
Busy yourself with preparing for the arrival of your little bundle of joy.
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