so done with my husband

[bobbihoover]

I'm so about ready to leave my husband!!! He is a ******* ****. I'm 33 weeks pregnant and swollen have a bad head ace and throwing up but he saying it a waste of gas for me to go in to hospital and if I go I can deal with my 4 year old crying the whole time

[dasart13]

Go to the hospital. Download a game or something on your phone for your kid. Then seriously, don't call to tell him what's going on. When you get home, if he asks what they said, ignore him. Will it help the situation? Probably not. But if he can be an ***, why can't you?

Thankfully I don't have that issue exactly. Instead I have the issue of my bf just started a new job and won't get paid for a couple of weeks. He damn sure came up with the money for his truck payment, but won't have all the money for rent until past the due date, and yet still asked to borrow $40 from my son's piggy bank so he could buy weed. -_-

And anytime I have something weird going on that's pregnancy related, he yells at me and tells me I'm killing his kid. For instance, last week something was going on with my kidneys I guess bc a couple of times I pissed there was blood in it. Well he actually witnessed it one day, and that's instantly what he started yelling at me. Saying I did something by picking stuff up. You know what I picked up? The gift bags to take the party bc it was oldests birthday...

[koyama83]

That's abuse. I'd leave him. You'd be better off if you were able to make decisions, since his decisions are based on idiocy and a power trip. He's treating you AND the kids badly. No of you deserve it or have to stay in the situation that he's created.
Those are symptoms of preeclampsia. Go to the hospital.

[jennenglebert]

Sounds familiar.  In the end do whats best for you. He will feel pretty bad if something bad happens to you or baby. My daughter  was sick last week with 104.9 fever and he gave me a very hard  time about  going to ER. He was afraid of cost. Come to find out  she had viral meningitis and was severely  dehydrated.  Had to have iv and spinal tap. He felt pretty bad and immediately  changed his tune afterward. Hes still a little insensitive  to my aches and pains, but gradually  coming around. Just remember, there  is no way they could ever handle what a woman handles being  pregnant and delivering a baby.