Problems trusting my husband

[deathblossom13]

So I been having such a hard time trusting him. When we first where seeing each other he told me he was a cheater. And like a year pass by and my intuition was telling me he was doing something suspicious. And I told him about it, hes respond was when we first  dated he slept with someone. And I know thats not it because we weren't exclusive yet. And I know that but all this time he thought he cheated at me and waited a year to tell me.
I dont trust him and its ruining my life. I even went and look at hes google locations and it said he was in other places when I was at school or when I was asleep. He saids he doesn't know why it saids he been in those places. That he wasen. I dont know what to do. Since now I have a baby on the way.

[Marie2015]

I'll always ask myself is it worth the heartache. Its scary to have to do it alone but no doubt in my mind u can and will. God will give you the strength. Once u present him with the idea of leaving him things may change but don't pretend there is not a problem its not healthy for you or your baby. Lots of luck :)

[RockRose]

If I was beginning a relationship with a guy who told me he is a cheater,  I'd be out the door.

What made you stay,  knowing he was being honest and that's what you could expect in a relationship with him? It's a rare guy who will come out and tell you his faults right off the bat.

[deathblossom13]

you don't know how our relationship is. He checks on my all the time aswell checks my phone. If he gets to do that. I get to do it aswell.

[GeekMom1213]

If any of you said that your husband was snooping into your belongings and checking your phone and insisting on knowing your whereabouts at all times you'd say he was acting dangerously stalkerish and abusive for trying to control you and your life.
Double standards do not apply. This is not okay behavior that is being advocated here. It is not appropriate to attempt to have total knowledge or total control of another adult's life. If you don't trust him, talk to him. If you can't fix the trust, you can't fix the relationship. If your relationship has already ended, you should just leave. Don't make it worse by giving him reasons to hide from you to allow himself some freaking personal privacy.

[Baby_girl09]

Once a cheater always a cheater. Honestly, you could have avoided this heartache before you got married by not marrying are guy like this. Marriage doesn't change people. If he was a cheater before marriage, then he wouldn't change afterwards. I'm so sorry, but you need to get it together for your baby sake. Don't let him walk over you like this. Move on & find support from your family & friends. Try counseling if you can afford, or family support will do. I wish you the best!

[ce5ce]

The guy told you this before you even married him!! I mean COME ON!! Yall need counseling like seriously and a good long break. You need to evaluate yourself before anything because you couldve avoided all of this. If you dont this will be messy. Now you have another life involved in it. Please dont pass this toxic judgement on to your kid. Its not fair. Its ok that you dont gave it together now but you need to get it together if not for you then for your kid. You are your child's first teacher. What will you teach him/her???

[Countrygurl96]

I am the exact same way with my boyfriend ever since he cheated on me with the friend that introduced us i check his phone when he is asleep and every other contact way in his phone because he said he was a chatter in the beginning as well it upsets me to think he is still cheating on me but he got smart about it from the first time there really is nothing i can do about it

[LuluJ21]

im exactly the same, i dont trust him at all but because i love him so much nd only could imagine myself having a bby with him, but everytime i ask to check his phone he says he will leave me or its up 2 me if i believe him or not

[MrsPrado]

From experience when u have the feeling go with it. Start checking his phone. Set up alerts to tell u when hes not where he should be. You have a feeling for a reason.