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PLEASE MOMS ADVICE!!!! READ, READ, READ!!!!

Yesterday I was at the ER with my oldest daughter. She Felt sick. As we get out the car. I seen a lady who could nearly walk. I asked was she okay & if she needed help. She cried, shaking, scared she was having an miscarriage & it hurts so bad. My boyfriend ran & go her a wheel car while I sat her on my back seat. I really watched someone lose their child. I watched some baby being rushed away. Now all I can do is feel bad. All I can do is think about how much this mom was losing. How easy it is to lose your baby. I cried for her. What if I wasn't there to help her? I'm really sad over it. I'm 12 weeks pregnant & call off of work because I'm scared of what might happen to me. My question is how to cope with watching someone lose their child, their baby!!!!!!!
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Wow, you ladies was so far along when you lost your babies. I'm sorry to hear that. I can only image how you feel. I don't really want to think about it. But that's all that's been on my mind since I seen it happened. I wish you ladies the best of luck & baby dust during this pregnancy.
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Theres nothing no one can really say to ease your mind because its very sensitive. Even though it wasnt your child your always gone have the what ifs in thr back of your mind. I carried my son for 38 weeks went to have a csection thinking i was going to see my baby breathing and well and get to take him home but i didnt. He had a heart beat and everything until my csection. Now I am 15 weeks preg expecting another boy and i just flat out quit my job, im on a strict diet, and everything because i am afraid to lose another child because i am high risk. So sometimes you have to find a way that u can cope and get thru things without being stressed out because that itself can affect the baby. Good luck I believe everything will be fine.
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Why do you lost a baby at 26 weeks?! Im so sorry for your lost, wish you the best! Im 26 weeks pregnant now, its a girl
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It's normal to feel upset and scared especially after seeing someone else going thru it, its never easy losing a baby I've lost one @26 weeks and when I had my son the fear of losing him was constantly on my mind and now being pregnant with twins I have a fear of losing one because my body won't hold them both. My best advice to you would be just to try and relax, and don't stress yourself out or think negative just keep taking things one day at a time and before you know it your precious baby will be here healthy in no Time
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