Relationship issues...

[Brilynn_Eric]

I'm 28 weeks and lately all my baby daddy can do it seems is party any day he has off. I clean and cook and work 2 jobs. I ask to go with but he says his friends don't want me ruining their night.. I don't know what to do any more and I want him to get it out of his system before our little man comes but I'm scared he isn't going to stop once James is here. Did any one else go through this?? I am now completely invisible except when he wants sex and it is breaking my heart..

[sasha_swtheart]

Why not come to an agreement?  Once a week he hangs with his friends and the other days he is at home like a good boyfriend.  Trying to stop him is just going to make you mad and him resentful but as parents to be he has to understand those partying ways have to cut down.  We all need time to have fun with each other and apart. It's about respect and knowing when enough is enough. Good luck.

[victoriamichelle1010]

The way i look at it is. If you cant do it why cant he. He got you pregnant, so he should be "pregnant" too.

[Brilynn_Eric]

I try to make him realize that I can't and it is messed up that he constantly does when i can't.  I don't know how to talk to him about it cu every time I do he storms off and comes back the next day or a couple day later hung over.

[Katrini486]

Well my child's father tried the going out and I told him that if I can no longer live my old partying lifestyle he can't either. He no longer goes out or anything.

[alexx1216]

His friends don't want you to ruin their night? That sounds pretty messed up to me. & the fact that he won't defend you when they say that. It's 1 thing to get it out of his system but it's another thing to do it every day he has off, we're pregnant we need extra attention. You definitely have to put your foot down. Goodluck hun!