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Sex Drive???

I know many pregnant women get that urge to have sex but like I don't want any sex!? Like I guess my body wants it, cause I get wet like all day everyday but then again.... I just don't want to do it, does that make sense? Just hoping I'm not the only one? :p
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We have to be considerate...it's not ganna harm d baby except ur condition is otherwise.my husband stays in another state because if work.i saw him at 3mnths and till then we haven't seen.even thou I was I'll den , but could be fine in some dayz.i feel ok when he sex me thou I never wanted it.am ok with romance but he wanna get down. I hold my tummy each time we had sex.it was a week  holiday.he doesn't mind having it 4 times a day because we were both on vacation.am now 24 weeks plus..I crave for him everyday.the affection of sharing the bed, holding u in pains, talking to the baby, showing love and care.....All I miss in him.cant wait to see him! So be free with ur men! Just learn to understand dem and study how to deal with them.you knew them b4 the baby!
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I can relate...and its sad that my hubby doesnt understands and starts getting attitude when i dont give him any..its very annoying and its pushing us apart.
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4202549 tn?1351002262
I haven't had sex in 16weeks my husband is about to go crazy as he put it... But I'm GOOD 4REAL. Should I give him some to keep him happy or not? He ask how could I stay wet all that time and not want any.
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Yea,my hubby too is soo worried he 'll hurt the baby although Dr says it's totally ok !!! So my sex drive has kinda died cuz if he doesn't want it,it gets me outta the mood after awhile !I'm 18 n half weeks
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10977026 tn?1414365303
I thought my sex drive would spike when I got preg but nope its been pretty sparse and when we do have sex it's more for him than me because I'd rather nap and cuddle to get my affection then have sex but men & women are different.
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This is my second pregnancy and my first I wanted it all day this one I haven't wanted it since day one my husband isn't happy but I still show him love
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I want it all the time but my hubby doesnt... he feels as if he's gonna hurt the baby... so I pout until he ups the goods...lol
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Yeah happens a lot! Lol but usually ill offer something else if I'm not in the mood. I dont want to turn him on then not do anything and I dint want him to go without lol
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With all the symptoms and fatigue its no wonder. Im the opposite though.. i want it all the time.
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No sex drive at all here either :(
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10961740 tn?1419817154
A baby daddy here, my experience is with my wife being afraid I'm hurting the baby, she wants it but then she doesn't feel right having sex. She bleed from time to time after we have sex and tjat worried her.  
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I'm 19 wks and do not have a sex drive at all, not that my hubby cares.
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@ jackielove I feel u I want sex but the idea odd the effort of acctualy doing it just makes me  tired lmao but I try to a Lil bit cuz I know that in the endy bf will have a six week sex drought lmao and I k ow it will affect me too
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No you are not along my husband wish he could get some but I just don't want none lol now the other morning I did. Its like I want it once every two weeks my poor husband he is a true soldier
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Trust me your never the only one my husband and I don't have sex that often any more just make sure you just not in the mood for it because if you feel you are going to hurt the baby then it great to know that there's no way (unless you're doctor said other wise plus if your husband is into the most craziest most wildest roughest sex in the world) :-)
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I have those crazy dreams and sometimes urges but to be honest, I can't remember the last time my hubby and I did it. I keep getting infections super bad with this pregnancy, so basically we haven't been able to do it, plus I'm getting uncomfortable to even try. Some people just don't want to and that is normal. I'm just waiting for this to be over. My husband is a trooper to be going this long. That's real love there!
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No not the only 1, this is the 1st pregnancy that i don't want it.
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I'm the same way, I want the sex just not the actually work that's goes into it! Lol
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I am just starting off my pregnancy and my sex drive has died I dont wanna have sex at all....is it normal?
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No your not the only one i get like that too a lot.
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You're not the only one. Im the same way. My husband doesnt appreciate that though.  
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8364464 tn?1408312392
I don't do it very often anymore because I start having contractions
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