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Sex while pregnant

My sex drive has just disappeared! We have only done it once in the past 4 1/2 months. Its that bad! I dont know if its because of my pregnancy or simply me & my thoughts. In my first pregnancy (This is my 2nd pregnancy)  we were like two horny teenagers lol. Sex 3/4x a day, it was so good. But this time around its been complete opposite. He doesnt get turned on at all, neither do I.  Its just upsetting me.
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12380259 tn?1424964291
This is something were struggling with as well:( I hate it because he thinks im not attracted to him anymore but I am! I just dont wanna be touched and I don't want to have sex. I hate it and feel horrible. cause I have these moments where I wanna hug him and kiss him but its random and its causing lots of stress because he just doesn't understand thats its normal unfortunately:(
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Same here, my sex drive has vanished. I feel so bad for my boyfriend but I can't control it,this is my first pregnancy as Well.
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I know how you feel. But lately  I have been wanting to have sex and he doesnt. It kinda upset me. I feel like I'm not attractive  to him anymore):
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Mine disappeared since the moment I found out I was pregnant am now 35 weeks if I do it, its only because of him because am never in the mood it does feel weird when doing it and as you get bigger it only gets much more uncomfortable.
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Yup mine has disappeared and I only do it because I feel bad for my husband haha but it gets harder when your bigger I'm 37 weeks ,but its normal no stress :)
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Mine disappeared when I found out I was pregnant. Never in the mood and just too tired. It'll come back though. Don't worry
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You are not alone it's been a while for me as well. I'm not in the mood and if so only for a min or so. It really becomes hard the bigger you get and very uncomfortable so I would just wait until its over
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I was the same way till about a month or two ago. Sex drive can come and go don't stress yourself out about it
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2194701 tn?1432394206
I'm 36 weeks and my sex drive is non existing and has been since I got pregnant... I feel bad for my husband but he has never pushed or pressured me.
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It was like that for me throughout the first trimester. I am not completely out of it yet but I am noticing to have gotten my libido back and all of my energy. Good luck!!
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