what should i do?

[kmommy2b]

Please dont judge i just need to get this off my chest and im seeking honest advice. I am 15 weeks pregnant with my bfs baby. we took a break 2 years ago and i met a girl who became my best friend and was there for me for a while. she has a child and a bf.. and my bf and i are expecting our first. When my bf and i were broken up me and her got so close both emotionally and physically and now that me and my bf got back together and he got me pregnant i feel obligated to be with him, but i miss my girl. Is it wrong for me to be emotionally attached to her? to be honest i have real feelings for her, but its obvious me and her are not going to be together but it is wrong for me to keep her as my best friend and still have that emotional connection? i am not sure my bf and i are going to stay together regardless of her involvement, and he doesnt know about the history i have with her. i never cheated and im not confused as to who to be with, i am not gonna be woth her romantically but i want her in my life, is it wrong?

[kandjmom]

I agree with Annies post. I would say in touch with her. since you got so close, and I completely understand where you're coming from. but for now I was just be her friend and talk to her. its always good to have a friend in your life. especially a female, because sometimes men just don't understand.

[AnnieBrooke]

I'd stay in touch but just not put myself into any situation where I would be tempted to behave like anything other than a friend.  This means no late-night talks, no alone time with a glass of wine, etc.  If you want her in your life, it has to be like any other woman friend.  

[GordonBaby]

I understand the companionship that you may be yearning for from her, but I honestly think because it was romantic at one point, that it is no different than if it were a man you wanting to be around....
I was always taught to avoid the appearance of evil. Maybe if the time comes where you and your man aren't together, then consider it. But you also said she has a family as well, and you wouldn't want to be a homewrecker. I would hold off a bit. I understand you two were close and this will be difficult for you, but you may end up complicating things more.