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So furious!!!!

Well I went through my husband's phone while he was asleep today during my break and I found out he stayed the night with the girl he's been talking to and they are calling each other baby and love face and all kinds of stuff!! He lied to my face. I am going to confront him here in just a little bit. I'm so ******* done with his crap.  
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I AGREE WITH SAFARAA I WILL DO THAT IF MY BF DID THAT TO ME .........
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Mommy again,  you're awesome. Take the pants and lead that relationship. You're the boss. I like that.
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My fiance did something similar to me. He had a problem talking to women on fbook and denying it till I started taking pics of it too and one of the women sent me the messages. He had deleted them all but I had the proof. He said he's been done for about a month now but I still wonder. He's never had an affair physically but to me this is the same. I feel for u I really do. My daughter is 3 1/2 months old and we're pregnant again. He proposed. To me on Sept 5th and I got pregnant that night. I still have thoughts and fears but I told him point blank if I find out again I'M leaving. And he knows I'll go thru his phone anytime I feel something is wrong.
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That's so messed up! U should leave him, however I don't think u should Leave your home. Do you have a friend or family member that can change the locks in your home? If so, throw all his **** in trash bags and leave it outside for him when he gets home. Leave a note that says "Glad u have somewhere warm to sleep at night, take ur **** with you, need room for my babies things" if he tries to fuss about it, or call the cops tell him that ur sure the cops would like to hear about how he's dating a high school girl!! Don't confront her u don't need that stress ur sooo much better! :)
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Karline hit that nail on the head! Both in hormonaly and clamly go girl
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Be mad at him cause another female dnt owe u nothing...he's the 1thts supposed to be committed to u...not her-chicks/hoes have no manners& obviously he dnt either so do wht u have to do to leave tht situation& focus on your unborn child...im sure this isnt is 1st time& u proboaly knew deep dwn Inside wht was goin on anyway (hence, u goin through his phone)...We as women gotta stop putting ourselves in pointless relationships &open ur eyes so u can see things clearly& take ot for wht its worth...If a man(or any1 else) shows u their true colors-u better believe em
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I say put his a$$ on child support and make him pay for over 18years! He dont need to see the baby, he just gotta pay up, you didnt make that baby alone, why let him have freedom? Make his a$$ pay and suffer by being broke and tied to you lol!!!

Im so freaking evil!!!!!

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Update girl! I wanna hear some details! This guy is a :500&"$^"$&#5^"#5*'#/*:...I didn't spell anything. .. But if that was a word it'd be a bad one! I concur with all the other ladies on this. Leave the *** and live a happy life with your son. Best of luck girl!
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I would never tell someone to leave their significant other since only you know whether or not your circumstances are workable but with all these pregnancy hormones surging through me and carrying HIS child I would haul off and punch him in his face and my husband would be the last husband that that 17-18 y.o messes with. Women have no respect for themselves or each other. So disrespectful on both their parts.
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Girl yea leAve him that's just excuses my baby daddy ex bf he changed completely when I got pregnant I'm sure on the low key he had sex with another girl but I'm now 6 months pregnant I left his *** when I was about 2 months n a half we got into an argument he thought he was tough n he hit me then left when I called the police bkuz I wasn't going to take his ******** if he hits me once he will do it again plus he said to have an abortion his stupid I didn't n I don't need him I work hard to buy my baby what he needs n I put an order of protection against him he spent a month in jail n when the baby is born just like I ain't asking him for nothing I don't want child support I don't want nothing from that ***** *** ***** he can have fun with those girls his with now n he won't be seeing his son either!
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http://shesahomewrecker.com
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She so will be we carry them and birth them for a reason! Because we can do everything and anything aan can!! She's got this
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Love the last posts of stephannieluv & dorothy701!! Best and smart way to handle this. You go girl, you are going tp be A great mom
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It is in most states and omfg he tried to blame your son!! Then he should go have his junk clioed and jot have had kids!!! I know this is an awful situation but just remove yourself from it completely take all of your things and go to the person closest to you and like one of the other girls said I wouldn't let him be involved at alk!! You do not want your little boys having that as a roll model!! Oh no your Lil man will be one of thosw men who gets down on one knee and gets up every two hours with his kids one day. Don't let that evil man ruin your happiness or your son. Women are made to have as rase children you will be an amazing mommy all by your dam self!!?!
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If she's 17, I'd call her damn parents and tell them to whip their little girl into shape!! I am so sorry your dealing with this :(
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Oh and if you do find out if she's 17 I would report it to the police lowkey. That's stachatory (however you spell it) rape and in some cases prostitution.
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17 or 18? Terrified about having a newborn? Honey I'm 8 months pregnant and I told my boyfriend if he's not gonna be able to handle it then tell me now so I can go ahead and pack. He should NOT blame your unborn son. Sorry but honestly I think he's just making up excuses so you would feel sorry for him. No girl. If that was my situation, I would never let him see my child. No child support, visitation rights, nothing. If he really cared about you and your unborn son then he wouldnt even do that ****. No no.
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I am done with him. I don't wish anyone go through what I'm going through but I hope karma bits her in her ***!!
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The other woman don't see it as a problem they see it as we not doing something right I hate that type of woman and they don't care about laying in your house in your bed like its Thiers ....they will even ask about the baby like they give a f&%$#
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I am! He doesn't care u less it's something to benefit him. He don't care if he's hurting me and doing all this stuff and that I'm 7 months pregnant.  He told me yesterday that the reason he's acting like this is cause he's terrified about having a new born baby and that he just wants some space before his little man gets here.
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Ugh!! I'd be so pissed
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And yes!! Me too. I hate having to get this mad cause I don't want it to hurt my baby and stress my baby out. Idk what to do. I'm so furious with this whole situation.  
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I have no clue all I know is when her and my husband were texting each other she said she is ready for school to be over with. And she isn't in college either. I think she might be 17-18?
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I wish I was there!! I'd slap the **** out of him and her LITERALLY!! How old is she?!
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