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So furious!!!!

Well I went through my husband's phone while he was asleep today during my break and I found out he stayed the night with the girl he's been talking to and they are calling each other baby and love face and all kinds of stuff!! He lied to my face. I am going to confront him here in just a little bit. I'm so ******* done with his crap.  
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Wow that's so disrespectful keep us updated screenshot and send yourself copies incase he deletes and try to lie his was out of it
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Pack all his **** and throw it out the house. !
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Wow... i would be out of there so fast. Not even a second thought would cross my mind. Actually, let me rephrase that.. HE would be out of there so fast. Thats so disrespectful.. i dont understand the thought processes of some people:/
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Ive dealt with that before. Guys are jerks!!! Dont let him lie about it anymore and call and cuss the other girl out to  
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How could he just sit there and lie to my face!! After they spent the night together he came up to my work gave me a hug and held me and told me he missed me. And what really set it off that they stayed the night together he told me thay she called him this morning and asked if he could take her to her house cause she stayed the night at a friends house. That's what put a red flag in my mind. I'm so ******* stupid. He also put her name under Steven in his phone and when he was and work with me I asked him who Steven was and he said it was her that she asked him to put her name under that name. He also changed my name in his phone from "my wifey" to my name. And Told that girl that he was so happy with her that, that's the happiest he's been in a while.
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Oh trust me that girl will get a ******* piece of my mind as well. The only way I can talk to her is through Facebook cause he has his phone now and I'm at work.
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Wtf is wrong with some men!!! I am so sorry sweetie I'd I was there I would hit him over the head with a rolling pin!!!
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Did she know you two were together and did she know you were pregnant??? Omg ****** home wreckers!!
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Yes exactly. Idon't so over this. I love him to death, but this draws the line. I'm done. I dont care anymore he can go be with that little home wrecker.  I think she is still In school too!!! And yes she knows he has a wife cause them two have talked about me. And yes she knows I'm pregnant.  I'm so over this. I'm gonna do what's best for me and my son.
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i would go tf off, honey its not worth it, my First babydaddy was the Same way but he used to pick arguments just to go be with another chick, i kicked him out while i was pregnant becuz i knew i didnt deserve it, i moved on and nw pregnant By Sumone else and Happy as cud be with him, while that dog begs me to come back u deserve better, i knw it might be hard at First but you deserve better
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I hat to say I told you so momma. It's alright, at least now you see what he's really doing. It's hard as hell but gather yourself up, grow some lady balls and get him out of there. This stress is unnecessary for your little baby and that should be first priority right now. No woman NEEDS a man to survive. We are a lot stronger than we put ourselves out to be. You can do it girl, you deserve so much better!!
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Omg. I went through this **** in May. My husband was going to the bar after he got off work and wouldn't come home till like 4 in the morning. I went through his phone only to find out that he had been messing around with her every night after work... I got his paycheck that day .. went and cashed it and bought him a bus ticket back to Minnesota. . When he got home. His stuff was packed and put by the door. I'm sorry your husband is being a low life. And you and your son deserve so much better. Sooooooo much better. I hope the best for you.
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I am. I'm waiting for him to reply.  He lied to my face this morning about it. Then tried telling me he missed me and all this other stuff. He's just playing his little games.  And i to totally agree. My baby comes before him. I'm going to get my own apartment and get things in my name. Everything in our house including our house is in his name. I will start over by getting my own place and everything.  That's fine he isn't my problem anymore, he's hers. And I'm sure he will treat her exactly like he is doing me after he gets tired of her. I don't care anymore.  I will he nice and everything for the shake our son. But i won't lose touch with his fanily. I love his family to death. Why do guys have to be complete jerk and not have a heart?!
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Omg girl I'd kick his,*** out of the house and go be with her...oviousky he doesn't care your gonna have a baby...what a low life peice of crap..sorry but I'm pissed now..no,man should treat a preganat woman like that I don't care,who you are....
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In 2009 I was 8 and a half months pregnant with my daughter and found her dad cheating on me the same way you did.  I left him when she was 2 months old. We tried thing out again again year or two later and because the trust was missing things didn't work.  We now have shared custody and though it took a while we are effectively Co parenting......
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Then he texted her when he was at work with me and said he had an amazing night last night when he was here with me calling me baby and telling me he missed me. If I don't call him out on this he is gonna keep doing it and thinking I'll let him get by with it. So guess what I'm done he can leave all he wants. I have absolutely nothing for him anymore after I found this out. I've had my share of lies and everything from him.
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I hope he realizes what he's losing and giving up because he's pushed me away to much and I've lost ALL trust in him.
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Ugh! I'd be so pissed I hate liars and lying I'd be letting her and him both have it and packing all my stuff and on my way I'd go!! Good luck girl so sorry your going thru this
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They will both be getting a piece of my mind.
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The nerve of some people
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Ughhhhh I want to be there right now and hurt the home wrecker and him. Sorry I am violent and if this happen to me I already planned out what to do.
One woman was trying to get into my husband 2011 when I was pregnant you can just guess what I did.. but she dropped out of school and went to a different state.

Good on you for not letting him get away with it!
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I.hope you took some screen.shots as evidence! My mistake back in 2011 i did not took any screenshots of thr text messages.so i looked like i was going crazy
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I want to so bad but I'm pregnant and don't want to take a chance of hurting my baby. Or else I'd beat her *** and his. I'll just have to verbally do It. But damn. Your right the nerve of some people.  I wished you were here to help me. Never thought i would have to go through this expecially being my first marriage.  
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Oh the story he told me this morning didn't match up to anything!  So I automatically have him in a lie.
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