VENT:'( some please give me advice

[nicolerello]

So I'm 22 weeks and I deal with anxiety already. And me and my bf live with his mom in a two bedroom. Now he tells me his sister and her boyfriend and there two kids 4yrs and 1yr 4 months old and there dog will be moving in BC there house is too infested with roaches. I'm shaking from anxiety that's too many ppl in a small town home. It so stress full. They will only be here till the find a new home. And on top of it my mom wants me to come stay with her for the time being but my bf says I have no reason to leave. I'm just idk I wana hide and cry. Idk what to do

[nicolerello]

I wana do what's best for me and the baby. But my mom lives 3 hours away. But also my emotions get in the way. That's why I'm so indecisive. I know my bf cares but I asked him if he go with me and he won't BC he doesn't like my mom. For problems that happens when I first found out I was pregnant. Its a tough situation all together. Another reason y I stay is I have a doc. Appointment on Halloween and in the months of November I have 2 appointments and a breastfeeding class to go to. So I can't just cancel and start all over with a new doctors.I know what would be best for me but I have things keeping me here. (Looking for a job till January and trying to save money for our own place)

[TChaney]

Jenny

[TChaney]

Jennifer?

[Abbey2121]

Sweety.....if it were me....honestly....I'd be running not walking to my moms house. You don't need this. Your boyfriend might be passed at first but give it a few weeks and I bet he'll be begging to come to your moms too. That's just ridiculous to ask of anyone. WAY too many people and way too much stress for you to need to deal with. I have anxiety too and that would honestly send me over the edge I think.

[jamie_michael]

your a big girl and a momma to be so what you think is best for you and the baby and yes roaches follow horribly

[nicolerello]

Thank you every one and that's what I was worried about , the roaches BC they live in a trailer. And we moved in with his.mom to help her out because she asked us to. And she wants to help her daughter but also can't stand all the stress . There not that clean of ppl that's how roaches got bad. And I'm torn to go stay with my mom BC she always trying to convince me to leave my bf. But he done nothing wrong.

[hersheyma]

^^^these posters are speaking nothing but the truth

[SaraaaBMendivil]

Ypu.guys should becareful because if they have roaches they will come with them in there stuff and you guys house will get them

[LalaLenny]

Stop crying and worrying about what it's going to be like with all these people living in a small house. Maybe living with your mum for that time will be a good idea? I know your bf don't want that but you need to think what you want. Atm you are living with his mum and she is helping her son - your bf by putting you up and she wants to do the right thing to her daughter by helping her and her family out. Please look at the bigger picture and I know you are pregnant but you still have lots of time before baby's here. If you want to stay with your mum explain to your bf that you are not leaving him or your new home for good.

[AngePants]

If I was you I would go stay with your mother. You can make your own choice, but that is way too many people in a 2 bedroom and it will get very stressful and you don't know how long it will take them to find a place. You don't need that kind of stress and with constant bathroom breaks from growing baby sharing a bathroom is going to be difficult as well. Staying with your mom seems like a good idea, at least until they find a new place.