frustrated!

[cmm20]

I'm 32 weeks preggo and I do not feel sexy at all! My bf finally came clean about y he's not trying w me anymore and he said its because I'm preggo and there's a baby in there. Ugh! Anybody else not feeling so attractive in pregnancy? Has anyone's man reacted the same way as mine is? I almost feel resentful towards him for it. Like how dare I carry Ur child and u don't find me pretty sort of way.

[Lee86lee]

I am that opposite becuz I have a baby in me he said he love it. I don't feel as attractive but he has all these nicknames and pet names. My son calls me Santa Clause wife my house is a mess but they all treat me with love and respect. I am sorry you feeling that way you should talk to him.

[cmm20]

Lol no problem! I just found out a friend of mine is newly preggo. I think it helps a lot wen u have a preggo buddy by Ur side.

[gavinsmommy111015]

Ohh I'm sorry I read it wrong! I thought you said your bf came clean to why he's not with you anymore lol. Sorry totally read it wrong and got so mad lol. But I know how you feel . It really is hard . But definitely rewarding . Hopefully you'll get some confidence soon! I've never had any really honestly . Even when I was skinny lol. I never realized I was skinny until I gained weight

[cmm20]

My bf didn't leave me. He's just not trying to have s3x w me cause of baby. We've talked and stuff but it just frustrates me. I thought being pregnant makes u a different kind of attractive in Ur s.o. eyes. Between my first pregnancy and this one I'm afraid I will have no boobs left! I'm opting for surgery cause I don't feel like a woman. Pregnancy is so hard on the body. Wish I didn't feel like it was necessary

[gavinsmommy111015]

Wow he left you because your pregnant ?! You don't need him anyways honestly then . It's one thing to not wanna have sex but to actually LEAVE is horrible . Hang in there ! A lot of people don't feel sexy while pregnant . I'm almost 38 weeks with a lot of stretch marks . It's just apart of pregnancy

[leviblack]

If it hurts you u should tell them to stop even if they are joking this is a sensitive time in your life. I notice alot of men r scared because a baby is in there. Maybe communicating your needs will better help. Or having a sit down with the doc to reassure him that everything is ok.

[Tia2015]

I just feel ugly now witj stretch marks and bigger legs and feel are swelling and my partner dont want to touch me but always calls me names, i know hes.jokinh but i feel so insecure about my self and i dont want it become worse after bubs born, i just want him to be attracted to me and not see other wmen with nice bodies then look at mine and think ew :( emotional pregnant women i think

[cmm20]

If u had a nice body before.. Don't worry.. Stretch marks r not a big deal. Everyone gets them. Even ppl who have never been pregnant. But jeez I just don't know how to pass the time or if I should b mad

[joycet26]

Your not alone since i found out we was having baby he told right from the junmp. NO MORE SEX. Just dont understand. The yu have a baby inside of yu not good enough. I take it as am not beatiful nomore. But he will cuddle all night with me tho . am 38 weeks and had sex literally 4 times this whole 9mths. Which is soo frustrating . he still all over me but i just dont understand

[Tia2015]

My partner says the same and has been calling me chunky im 36 weeks and its frustraiting because i used to have a really nice body now im coverd in stretch marks :/ i dont feel good about my self at all

[cmm20]

I figure its about 14 weeks until I can regain a s3x life! Its frustrating! I love my baby but I don't get y he finds it so weird now that I'm bigger. Its our child. Idk. :/ how do I keep self esteem up wen I don't feel wanted? Ya know?

[sheika29]

Omg i feel the same way my bf still tells me am sexy am 34 weeks

[cmm20]

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