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Father of baby
Before I got pregnant everything was fine ...But when I found out things started to go down hill fast ..I am almost to my due date and I am moving back to my home state pregnant but he dose not wanna join me at all he wants to stay in his state and come every month to see his child...I dont know what to think of that at all
It was a suprize ....But i am happy with it so is he but still he wont back down he said he wont be standed in another state like he was before ....
I'm going through something similar. Sort of. I was living with my husband in Colorado and all of our families are out of state. This pregnancy was planned and we were both very excited. Then approaching 4 months he started suggesting that I go be with my family in Texas and he would join me later in pregnancy after he wrapped things up in Colorado. I didn't like the plan but agreed that family would be nice. Soon after I found out he was having an affair. Then he told me that he was leaving me for her and that she would be moving in to our home. So I left and am now in Texas. The last thing he said was "sorry, youre going to have to do this on your own". It has been a devastating 4 months but have to focus on this little baby. And I definitely don't trust any man that doesn't want to stay by his partners side during pregnancy when she needs his support the most.
No he wants me to leave ....and he wants to stay here in his own state
I'm guessing the father of the new baby isn't the father of your 7 year old? To be honest, it seems like you're moving because that's what's best for you, rather than what's best for you as a couple. I can understand why he wouldn't necessarily want to move with you. It's not right to expect him to move just because you've decided you want to. Hopefully he'll feel differently after the baby comes and will decide to move to, but if not, it was your decision to move and take the baby away from him.
Why are you moving away? Surely the easiest solution is to just stay where you are?
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I have another child that I have to think about she will be 7 next month and I been gone for so long from her yes i do talk to her and I go see her but i need to be near her ....Once again
Was this a planned pregnancy, or a surprise to both of you?
He said he will send me money well thats good i all but to bond with his unborn daughter he needs to be there with her ...
He's just. . in his feelings t'll be better once the baby gets here nd he bond with the baby .
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