Will I get past it for the second time around?

[Chelleychelle8919]

For the second time but third child,I'm finding out that my third kid's dad is keeping my son a secret from his family. I feel hurt and unwanted especially knowing that my baby might be done like my daughter who was kept a secret away from her dad's family. Will I be able to get over this pain I feel before I decided to shut him out of our lives?

[RockRose]

Do you have any relationship at all with any of his family?  At some point,  it will be obvious that you are pregnant.  

Or is your relationship to him also a secret,  as well as the baby is a secret,  so you never interact with or even really know any of his family?

[figaro08j]

You got a mouth.  Use it! Tell them yourself.  

[MegiLiz]

If you want them to know, tell them. It's not his choice to keep this child away from his family and more than likely they'll be grateful you told them and ream him a new *******.

[lucybooskie]

Wow that is lame on his part.  I hate ppl like that , I have some in my family.   There's no easy way to deal. I think u deserve better...so don't forget to put urself first...let him do his lame self.

[mags242001]

Maybe it's time we make better choices aby who we decided to make a baby with. Sorry but if it happened to u once y wouldn't u be more careful the 2nd time and actually  learn from past mistakes?? I just don't get it.

[Redstorm_2]

What is his reason for keeping it a secret if he don't have a damn good reason I would let it be known  my baby won't be kept  a secret every child deserve to be acknowledged and need all the love and support they can get  you don't need to get over it  I would be hurt too I can't  even think of a good reason to hide a child  I  sorry you going through this  been there ultimately I raising that child with out that side of the family but now have a wonderful husbands and we on our second  he been around from day one for a child that's not even his