3 months is generally out of the scary stage for a miscarriage. & your doctor may do an ultrasound at your first appt. Mine does. (Not all do) Just try not to worry :) & pray for the best!
I'm only 3 weeks and five days I believe to early for doctors so I can't wait till I'm at least four months past the scary stage of miscarriage and all that ima be scared toll then well till I can get a heart beat
It can be overwhelming. But, very well worth it in the end. :)
It's never easy and I'm sure we've all had our moment of being so done! But honestly, pregnancy is a good indicator of motherhood. We give up our bodies, our sleep, our comfort, our bladder control, and everything else for this tiny little person we haven't even met.
Four years from now, we'll have given so much more! Watching my little girl grow up, taking care of her when she's sick (like now), teaching her to use the potty and watching her delight when she manages to make a pee... I don't want to rush these moments either!
I'll keep her in as long as she wants but no time soon shall I do it again. I'll wait till my body has had more experience like 3 /4 years from now. If God says the same.
I needed this i'm so done with it. It hurts just to get up and go pee. Im putting myself on bed rest. My hips just can't handle the weight.
Honestly I am 36 weeks now and I say that I am wanting my son out of me. But I also know that he needs to be there till he is ready. I don't like to complain but he causes me a lot of pain. And he kicked one of my ribs out. But in all reality he is my miracle baby. I have had 3 miscarraiges in the past 5 years never made it past 8 weeks. I was told that I never could have a baby. So I just gave up and now I will be having my son when he is ready to come out. Hopefully around mothers day. He is my blessing and most likely my only child. I don't wish anything bad on anyone. Keep that baby in you as long as he is willing to be there. Don't rush him/her. Keep your head up. Everything happens for a reason. May it be a good reason or a bad reason. Good luck to you mamas. And congrats as well
Well said! I feel so blessed and lucky to be carrying my little girl.. My back constantly kills, my hips hurt, my clothes don't fit but I wouldn't swap this for the world.. I can't wait to meet my little angel and ill go through anything just to have a healthy bub in my arms.. Congratulations girlies!! :) :) x
Killad33 -Yay Im glad :)
Doulamommy- It is. I had a miscarriage May of last year. At that time I would have done anything to be in their position. Thankfully I am 11+1 weeks now ♡
Most of the mommas forcing baby out are at the point baby doesnt matter anymore as long as theyre getting what they want. Makes me feel like our "on demand" society has numbed people to concern for others well-being, ir that they are ill informed and think pregnancy isnt going to hurt like hell. But then I see that theres mommas here who despite what they suffer are holding out for their child and it gives me hope :)
Well said. I'm sure it's especially hard for moms who've had miscarriages or preterm labor to see because they would have given anything to keep their babies/keep them in longer!