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all my fault

My bf constantly makes me feel like all the problems we are having is my fault because it was my idea to try for a baby but he wanted it too! we both were excited and tried for two months now he claims he has no money and outlr life is turned upside down because of the baby and its all my fault. regardless of all the stress we are under right now i couldnt be happier that we r having a daughter but its hard for me to enjoy it when he sounds like he already despises her! i cant take it.. he tells me the stupidest thing he did was bust in a dumb biitch like me... wtf!?
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I went through sorda the same thing my babys biological father and I weren't even in a serious relationship and when I told him I was pregnant he told me he didn't want it to get a abortion and he couldn't have made me feel any more hopeless I was depressed for a while bit you know what I forgot that I had a precious life growing inside of me that was minee and mine only if he doesn't want to be in the babys life dnt let him your baby doesn't need someone like that in their life and neither do you be glad your having a angel (:
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You just focus on that precious baby and try to get past his negativity. Things will be okay
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5705417 tn?1385880834
You don't need that crap. I went through something sort of similar. My boyfriend and I were trying for 4 months and were in the process of buying a house. On the 5th month he was so stressed out that we were having our issues and I had reserves about trying. 3 days before I found out I was pregnant he left me, with no explanation and moved out of our home while I was at work. Now I couldn't be happier and he isn't around.
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