alone and pregnant

[natz16]

I have a 16 month old and also pregnant with 2nd baby me and my bf was argueing and fighting all the time and he left me few weeks ago and has already started to see someone new. Im so heartbroken coz i love him so much and its not fair im going threw this alone while he has his freedom cant stop crying :(

[AnnieBrooke]

Time to get child support all squared away.  Talk to a lawyer or legal-aid clinic.  Money doesn't make people happy, but it helps keep your life together and at least you will have the comfort of knowing that he doesn't just get to walk off and leave you carrying the bag.

[mommyleci]

Try not to stress.easier said then done.worry about you and your kids.trust me i know its hard im going through it with my babys father i finally found tue couarge to get up an leave an trying to stay strong for my baby

[gizmo6l86]

At the end of the day they are his children he needs to put his hands in his pocket and support them even tho he isnt with you he still has a responcability
I bet there is a better man out there for you to be happy with chin up

[KatelynBradshaw]

I'm 22 weeks, I'm high risk, this is my third pregnancy,the other two were miscarriages and I left my ex boyfriend/father to every pregnancy I have had, three weeks ago because o found out he was cheating and had been going to see the girl in MY CAR!! this past week the girl messaged me and told me she thinks she's pregnant and he told her to get an abortion!! Trust me, if I can survive all of this, you can too!! It's hard at first but always remember this... When you're taking care of a man... And you know you deserve better and you keep doing for him and he's not doing for you. God will start to spank you, he will spank you for not listening to his warnings for ignoring the signs and with that spanking he will start to take things from you. Things that makes a difference so you can realize what life could be like if God wasn't on your side. So now that you're not blind to what his journey is for you the blessing will start to pour.

[natz16]

I know im not the only one this happened to and not the last i do see your point i had warnings along time ago when we 1st met he was a stoner and wouldnt give it up the last time i was pregnant and he was a nightmare to live with i will be fine im not even gona tell him what sex baby is or have him at birth he knew we both nearly died last time and this time i turn to god :)

[bon9ne]

He sounds like a heartless dickhead honestly and if he's meeting other women for drinks whilst you're at home pregnant with his kid what does that tell you. Selfish. Chin up I know it's hard and seems like the end of the world now but he wouldn't do this to you of he was a real man. You and your kids deserve better. He should know to be patient with you cause you're pregnant and not arguing with you and control his temper, not leave when the going gets tough and shack up with some other *****. I bet he's fed her loads of ******** as well. Just try and surround yourself with your friends and people who care and support you to distract yourself from thinking about him and I know it's hard but of he texts you again ignore him. For some reason when men feel like you don't care anymore they suddenly decide they care, think cause it bruises their ego that you've moved on and don't need them anymore. Just act like you're fine without him even if you're not. Guarantee he will come crawling back at some point. But by then you might not even care so his loss.

[natz16]

Yeh your right i did alot for him more than his family did but even his dad said he will regret it i love my daughter it was a shock about 2nd pregnancy  as i wanted to wait he wanted another but ive got my family now thats all i need thanks i feel better chatting about it :)

[bon9ne]

He probably wanted to hurt you by sending you that text. What kind of man leaves a pregnant woman and gets with someone straight after  anyway? You sure she wasn't already on the scene? You're better off without him. Concentrate on yourself and your babies. He doesn't deserve you anyway.

[natz16]

Well i didnt believe him he said theve met afew times for a drink but u dont just say see u soon beautiful do u i confronted him and he said get over it so i will but i still have to see the *******

[natz16]

Thank u all i will get over it he had very bad anger issues anyway and will be the same with  the next girl he said il be there for the kids it just hurt when he sent me a text which was ment for her which broke my heart

[Tot32]

I am 37 weeks now and have 4 other kids. I haven't had anyone but my kids for almost 5 months now. I cried for the first couple of weeks or so, but I also seem to start getting closer to my kids. Now I just focus on them and getting my life together for them. Everything is going well I'm still working and doing well for myself and the kids. I say that to say this, focus on you and your children a man can always come and go but your kids are with you a lifetime! Good Luck on everything!