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Giving up. (Long read sorry)

Hey ladies sorry this isn't really pregnancy related but i just need an ear to listen. Back in November I moved with my fiancé to be closer to his family. And everything was going great. We had a small two bedroom that we were renting to own and in January I got pregnant and i couldn't be happier. But news came in February that the people we were renting from has decided to do foreclosure instead all they had to say was you can stay there as long as you can a sorry and a good luck. And i have been destroyed ever since. I try not too show it much because I know that it makes him happy to be up here with his family. But every night I have been worring more and more. We have had tried looking for another house but it's hard because where we are at everything is way outside of our price range. I have three dogs too that doesn't make it easier on me. They are my children. I know i might have to give one if not two of them up and it just makes me cry thinking about it. But i just want to give up and move back home. So i don't have to worry anymore but then I know i don't want to be without my fiancé. I cry myself to sleep once I know he is asleep and can't hear me. But i don't know how much longer I can keep this up and pretending everything will be alright. I have nightmares that we can't find a place in time and the baby is here. And i have to leave him because we don't have a place to go. I just need hope. And i don't know i if I can keep pretending I have it when I don't
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Can you see if you can prove that maybe they scammed you into renting with them? Maybe they already knew they were getting foreclosure and just wanted to trick you with a good deal into getting in there? Maybe you can talk to a lawyer.
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9309185 tn?1420228764
I agree that you should talk with your fiance because he could help sooth you do you won't feel alone and feel that burden of holding things in. Also if you pray... pray and believe the Lord will make a way
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Sorry things are so stressful. Hopefully you aren't still paying rent since home is in foreclosure and u can save that money. Does he have any family that can help?   Talk w ur fiance about concerns and come up w a plan together.  You shouldn't be holding ur worries in to protect him. Good luck
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8216878 tn?1403882912
Jus try not to stress and remember there are options you jus have to find them. Also dhs may have info on rentals. Or help
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Thanks so much
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8216878 tn?1403882912
Look for rentals...sometimes places arnt always listed bc home owners rent out ask around. Also you may look into buying foreclosed place. If you had a contract you should be protected. Goodluck but try not to stress something will work out. Charities and churches may have info or be able to help.
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