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7753764 tn?1401853590

Am i being unreasonable?

My husband usually works from 3 pm to 9 or 10 pm depending on the day. Well tonight he was supposed to be off work at 10 and it takes him 10 maybe 15 minutes to walk home. Well it hits 10:30 and he's not home so he walks in and I ask what took so long. He says he was talking to this guy that he never has chosen to be buddy buddy with before till tonight . I dislike this guy to the extreme and the guy has been extremely disrespectful about our marriage, our baby and pretty much hates me. Well I told my husband I don't like this guy so now he's mad at me for saying he should have been home when he got off since its 1030 at night and we have a 2 year old and im 26 weeks pregnant with his kid. He doesn't seem to care that it bothers me and is now acting like im being a controlling *****. I also told him I don't want him talking to this guy since he has been so disrespectful. Am I overreacting or is he just not getting it?
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I'd say your overreacting if he was.supposed to be home by 1015,its only 15,mins so its not that big of a deal if it was a hr then I'd.be concerned.
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I also think you are overreacting. If I do not like one if my husband's friends, I don't try to stop him from communicating with them but instead request that they don't come into our home. He does the same for me. Just a thought.
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OVER REACTING!

It's not like he has been out all night. Looks like your too insecure.
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7753764 tn?1401853590
I realized I was overreacting and apologized it happens
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Okay maybe u are overreacting about the time he wa supposed to be home, but he should give it REAL thought into who he Wants to be friends with especially if it's someone who has been disrespectful to u and your marriage.  
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