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I DON'T WANNA DO IT ANYMORE.

I just don't. I can't pretend tha I want this baby I can't pretend that I wanna go on. I can't pretend that everything is alright. I just can't anymore. I just wanna go in hole and Lay there .
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7174950 tn?1406661109
It kinda upsets me when people feel like this because of what I went threw but just to let you know its your hormones hun and my sister was pregnant she found out after I found out I'm pregnant and she went for an abortions and now she's miserable. And moody I disagree with terminations but I wouldn't do it but please think bout it before you do decided on anything been pregnant is a blessing and wounder ful especially when you feel the baby move and stuff I hope you feel better hun things will get better I promise
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You should first seek counseling before you start making decisions about what to do with the baby. Yes it's health is important but if your not healthy and struggling with all these other major issues there's no way for your baby to grow healthy. So find a free clinic and get some counseling from them or call the pregnancy hotlines in your state they can offer support. Good luck
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I just never thought I'd be this young and pregnant. On top of that I'd never thought I'd have to set up and be a single mom. And what's more I never thought th guy who said he loved me like I loved him would leave me alone and helpless. I'm extremely heart broke and extremely emotional. Maybe it's this hormones because I had accepted that you are going to do this alone but today when all of my financial issues on top of my insecurities on top of my heart ache just really is taking its taking its toll on me. I also already had anxiety and self confidence issues so it i just magnifies it times ten. I'm just Soo sad.  Like sad to the point that it feels like my chest is rocking apart and I trying to hold it together but is hopeless
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I just never thought I'd be this young and pregnant. On top of that I'd never thought I'd have to set up and be a single mom. And what's more I never thought th guy who said he loved me like I loved him would leave me alone and helpless. I'm extremely heart broke and extremely emotional. Maybe it's this hormones because I had accepted that you are going to do this alone but today when all of my financial issues on top of my insecurities on top of my heart ache just really is taking its taking its toll on me. I also already had anxiety and self confidence issues so it i just magnifies it times ten. I'm just Soo sad.  Like sad to the point that it feels like my chest is rocking apart and I trying to hold it together but is hopeless
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Give yourself time hun. It will get better I promise. You really don't need to do something you'll regret later. Adoption is a great way to go. Just hang in there. Hopefully once you hear the heartbeat things will change. Men are stupid. And if you have support even if not financially then that's something. A lot of women don't even have their family. If you still don't want the baby look into adoption. That way if later on down the road you do decide you want to be a part of that childs life you can
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973741 tn?1342342773
You do have options sweetie.  There is termination or adoption if you do not want to keep the baby.  They both have good points and bad points and we can discuss that if you need help.  It's a hard thing to be unprepared and pregnant and there is no shame in admitting it is the wrong time.  Luckily, you have options to choose from.  
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*Boobs
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I'm six weeks and alone. I don't wanna carry it full term, or that hat my mind says. I'm super emotional and I can't, I can't.it hurts my bf left and I have all kinds of support but financially no. And I'm really heart broken and sad and I look like a snot nosed kid crying my eyes out and I don't know what to do. I'm just too young for this. I'm scared and suicidal. But not really suicidal more like hopeless. And I'm tired my books hurt and I just want it to go away.
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973741 tn?1342342773
Hi.  Gosh, I'm sorry you are so down hon.  Couple of things, first---  think about all of the options that a woman has and maybe do a pro and con analysis about what will be best for you.  It's really important that you do what is right for you in a situation like this.  Lots of people have opinions but the main one that matters is your own.  YOU are the one that has to deal with all that is to come so you should be in control of what happens to you and this pregnancy.  

the second thing to consider is talking to your doctor about how you're feeling. If anxiety and depression are getting the better of you due to the increase in hormones, that is something they will want to help you with.  NO matter what option you choose---  that is the case dear.  Your mental health is very important and being pregnant makes a woman more prone to having trouble handling it all.  Even when they are excited about the pregnancy and plan it, some women can battle depression and anxiety due to brain chemistry and hormones.  

So, don't be afraid to ask your doctor for help.  And we are here to be a sounding board for what you want to do.  Again, it's YOUR decision hon.  good luck
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Hun most girls feel like that at some point during their pregnancy,  but it will be okay! :)
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How far along are you? I think you should explore all your options as oppose to feeling so down. It's clear that you've made up your mind & decided not to want the baby. What about adoption? Is that an option for you. Adoption agencies can match you with a family & hopefully you will feel better knowing that you give a family the opportunity to raise this baby.
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7818018 tn?1406154441
These feelings could all just be your hormones. Especially around hard times. Good luck sweetie
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I would suggest looking into adoption agencies around you! Plenty of families that would looooove a Lil bundle of joy who cannot get pregnant. Good luck hun!
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