bf problems & family problems !!

[marishuerta]

Okay so my bf is in jail right now i am 13 weeks. He knows am pregnant but he thinks am doing stuff so sometimes we get in arguements about the past and sometimez i cry.  And whenever my mom hears she asks me what happened and to talk to her so i do and she just ends up talking so much **** on him and telling me **** and ends up making me cry also and she says she can say whatever she wants since i live with her.  And it just gets me mad because she talks **** on him if we argue but yet she still doez the samee too she. Makes me cry.

[dollylauren]

I get where ur coming from actually . Im 21 weeks pregnant & while my boyfriend is workin and im being home he doubts me, its crazy but its just him . And itsss the same thing my boyfriend n i have arguments , i start to cry just because my hormones are really bad sooo they start saying **** about him and that hurts because i love him n then being with him n us loving eachother i mean it runs threw my mind about what they tell me . I just feel soo bad n like its my fault but in your situation just try to not let your mom see you cry itss just gunna make ur mom have a grudge over him . Like my mom tells me were gunna stop anything n anyone making you cry n doing you harm but yea yet there the ones making us cry too. Who understands parents now a days

[marishuerta]

I was actually thinking about that too .. to just keep to myself because she just wants to know whats going so she could have more to say about him. Thank yu ladies for the advice!!

[Midgett_Mommy]

Just remember it.isn't her choice. Its your choice. And if he treats you good and makes you happy that's all that matters. My boyfriend is the sweetest man I've ever met and I've been with him over a year and my mom is just now warming up to him. If she does that to you though, just stop talking to her about it period. That's what I did and once she saw I was happy, she got over it. She also realized I was pulling away from her and she had time to think about why. So just stop talking to her about anything like that for a while.

[marishuerta]

I know ive bbeen with him for almost 5 years and she doesnt liike him at all . Its just so stressful because she is happy am pregnant but she doesnt want me to have anything to do with him she wants me to keep the baby away from my bf .

[wesquivel]

I passed threw the same thing i ignore the s**t out of her and now im not very happy but im glad she kinda off my life! Because now less problems the less she knows about you the better you live with your family! 2nd bby of the same husband! And she mad!idgaf!! Love my family!! 8th yrs together strong then ever!!

[wesquivel]

I passed threw the same thing i ignore the s**t out of her and now im not very happy but im glad she kinda off my life! Because now less problems the less she knows about you the better you live with your family! 2nd bby of the same husband! And she mad!idgaf!! Love my family!!

[morgy_mak]

If your telling your mum all this bad stuff and venting to her when you and your bf fight its only natural for your mum to get defensive about it. She probably doesn't realize she does it to

[mzgarcia07]

Sorry to hear that but just keep ur head up